Aligning Self to LIFE is a Real Decision

ART by Matti Freeman

For further context see
The Journey to Life - Breath by Breath.
Setting Life Free from the System – part1
Setting Life Free from the System – part2
We are the ones we've been waiting for
Taking a Real Role and Walking Out of Characters
Can’t serve two gods



I am realizing that the decisions we make in life are not really our own decisions, but are responses we give to the impulses we receive from our world, other people, the system as a whole;

And that within that is implied that we actually define ourselves and thus our decisions through the eyes of world, through other people, the system as a whole – submitting in essence to the system.


Our current alignment in this existence is that of self-interest: where each being’s actions/living is aligned in separation from the whole, pursuing only individual ‘survival’ based on what the conditioned character-roles/personalities determine that we ‘must’ and ‘have the right to’ want, need, fear, desire. Within this ‘following’, we accept our existence of separation and also the polarity system of ‘superiority’/’inferiority’, ‘winning’/ ‘losing’, ‘having’/’lacking’-

hence a world under the dictatorship of a polarity system, seen very clearly within consumerism that has become literally a way of life, and within the profit-based money system that exploits life and living resources in the name of profit, favouritism, inequality.


What becomes clear here, is that in order to change the alignment of our existence, we require to change our self-alignment:

from self-interest to the interest of life, as who we all really are beyond the apparent separation, which in essence is a mental separation through which we impose “values” based on value-judgments of ‘superiority’/’inferiority’;
a condition that disregards the actual value of life, as which we are all equal, coming from the same substance and returning to the same ground at death.


Perhaps herein is the reason why we are not transcendent of death: because we identify with the mental only, while we disregard the physical, worse still: we abuse the physical in the name of the mental.

And since all that we are in the end is consciousness personas of the mental, fake characters/personalities in separation of the physical substance, nothing substantial remains of ‘who’ one is when one breath is suddenly the last.

The very definitions we accept of ourselves in terms of ‘superiority’ and ‘inferiority’ in fact determine our effectiveness and our decisions in life.

Realizing that I am the one deciding who I am based on what I accept myself to be defined as equal to, implies that the way to make actual decisions in self-determination entails walking out of the fake characters/personalities and self-realizing life. Within this becoming aware of what the cause and effect of my existence is, and making sure that my existence cause an effect that supports life as a whole.


Therefore I commit myself to aligning myself to life, and to assist and support others to do the same and break through the limitations and polarization of the system – so that we may bring forth an existence where all life is equally honoured as such, and the actual value of life is restored so that all may live without fear, without struggle – stopping the system of survival within and without, to finally LIVE.

This is the Journey to Life that is walked and promoted with Desteni and Equal Money – in the realization that Life is ONE group, we are all here together and share the same physical needs for a dignified life on this Earth. There is no plan B, we only have one planet, and since it is our nature that is the cause for the atrocity currently allowed in our world, it is our nature that must be the solution.


Therefore I commit myself to transforming the nature of my being, from the self-interest of the conditioned fake characters/personalities to the interest of life as who I really am.

I commit myself to living the decision to align myself to LIFE in every moment, because who we are in every moment determines who/what we become. Every breath counts.

I commit myself to slowing down and becoming/remaining aware of every breath and who I am within it, within my participation in my world, my reality –
to within that assist and support myself in stopping any and all participation that is based in self-interest, fears and desires that are conditioned, and to instead make actual, informed decisions in every moment, taking full self-responsibility for who I am and what I am participating in.


I am grateful that the support of the Desteni group is here, and I’d suggest to anyone reading this to study the material and the realizations shared, as that will assist in breaking through the veils of self-interest, which is the system, which is consumerism –

So that we may stand together as life, as one, as equals, and stop consuming ourselves and each-other, stop consuming the physical oneness in the name of the mental inequality, and change our existence in a way that will ensure equal life for all, equal freedom and dignity for life in all possible ways.





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TRUTH is a Four Letter Word

TRUTH
one word - so many stories, so many seeking for glory

how can there be different truths
personal truths, 'my truth' or 'your truth'
when we all share one planet
on common ground
and what is best for me is best for you
'cause we need the same things, we want the same things
and we're bound to each other for survival and quality of life

how can we not see that there is only one truth
and that truth is here
it is this world right in front of our eyes
within as without
we all contribute our share to this one truth manifested as 'life on earth'

why do we bind life to a system that is hostile to life
the secret of the tower of babel
is the one common long-u-age that binds us:
money



how can there be so many claiming to own the truth
so many professing a way to the truth
while ignoring what is going right in front of our eyes day in day out
if there are so many leaders to the truth,
so many masters on earth that have apparently found it
how come we are not yet mastering this one reality we all share?

could it be because the truth that is professed is only one's 'own truth'
tailored to fit one's own mind-reality
and instrumentalised to give one power
in whatever form or value
while we disempower our fellow man and our home planet

what god would buy that we were seeking for the truth
while closing our eyes to the very presence of our creation
here
what god would forgive the human that is not his brother's keeper
the human that exists in fear and therefore seeks to protect its own
as if we own the breath we breathe
as if we own the sun and the water and the earth

how can any man stand before god, before death, before oneself
and look the darkness in the eye that is I
without shame
when we shame ourselves as life through our very existence
what light can there be at the end of the tunnel
when the light of this earth is not shared equally for all
when man does not give what man wants to receive
blinded by the light of might
obsessed with some mightiness that might come
while one wait, while one procrastinate
always ready to throw the first stone
pointing fingers will never get us home

home is here
this is the space and time
that we own
or are we owned

the time is here
but the end is near
unless we stop the fear
and stand-up
to act in actual fact
and bring-forth a solution
a resolution for the condition of man
until man is kind
and the planet is ONE
where we live as EQUALS of LIFE
like brothers under the sun

WE are the Aliens – Time to become EARTHLINGS

STOP THE ALIENATION OF LIFE

We learnt to think that ‘human nature’ is what it is.

We do not consider that by accepting this as ‘given’, as pre-programmed, as our legacy as human-kind, we are perpetuating the ‘status quo’ of the world as we know it – which is everything else but kind.

We tend to use nature and the animal kingdom in an attempt to justify why we (co-)exist the way we do, saying that for animals to exist in mutual consumption and competition for resources/survival, it must be ‘natural’ and the only way for humans and the rest of ‘life’.

Never for a moment do we question the accepted ‘human nature’ – 

we do not consider that this world is a reflection of who WE are, and that if WE dare to change (since we DO have the intellect and common sense to see we are heading towards self-destruction) everything else may change consequently.

We learnt to think that we are the effect of a ‘mysterious’ cause, and avoid acknowledging the manifested consequences of cause and effect as evident in this world. Moreover, we deny our own involvement within it all; we deny responsibility for what is Here and invent all kinds of theories and projections onto which we abdicate our power to create, design, form reality. 

We refuse to see and recognize the EFFECT we CAUSE each in our personal worlds, as well as the EFFECT we CAUSE within the greater picture/the Whole through all that we each accept and allow or choose to ‘ignore’ at any given moment.

Let’s STOP; and create a World that is Best for All.

Let us allow ourselves to consider the possibility that if WE change – change ourselves, our co-existence and the systems we construct to manage ourselves through – everything will change! We won’t know until we do it! But we DO know that we can’t continue with the world and ‘humanity’ as we know it:

We are heading towards self-destruction.

Not only the animal kingdom, also the weather patterns are showing us the insanity we are manifesting, wherein the bipolar reality-construct as we’ve created/accepted/allowed it is becoming more and more extreme, the rich becoming richer and the poor poorer, the natural disasters more violent, and the ‘demonic possessions’ in the human minds are escalating more and more into incidents of hatred, rape, murder.

Also the spontaneous revolutions and protest are becoming more and more heated as the people of the world shout-out and stand-up to revolt against the system’s oppression, against the inhumanity of humanity and the laws that violate people’s right to life – without any actual solutions taking place to benefit LIFE.

It is up to us, the People, you and me – the building blocks of this world system – to change the paradigm of an existence that is parasitic in nature, and consider practical ways to an equilibrium that has never existed before.

We have the knowledge, the experience and the technology to do this. 

The last ingredient for a successful transcendence of ‘life’ is the WILL of Man and the consistency and courage to do what it takes and not give up, until Life is ONE and we can stand as equals of life, as brothers and sisters in fact. Not give up until all abuse, exploitation and disgrace is abolished from the face of the Earth, once and for all, and we have cleared the way to create heaven on earth for all and finally start Living and discovering what Life, what we, can be.

We have been the ‘Aliens’ that have accepted and allowed – and through our daily participation given permission for – the alienation of life, the alienation of the planet, the alienation of ourselves.

It is time to stop; and re-evaluate our existence.

It is time to ask ourselves what we can actually learn from history and how we can finally stop history repeating and change the patterns that make up the context of life on this planet. 

It is time to be/become EARTHLINGS, time to humble ourselves and find Common Sense, as Common People, breathing Common Air on Common Ground: 

the ONE planet we share – Let’s share it equally.

Let’s stop this system of ownership, possession, profit and greed that only feeds off of life, and let’s create a new system of actual life support that nurtures ALL LIFE EQUALLY.

It is possible – It’s up to us!

Get informed - Get involved! 

Find ways to stop being part of the problem - and start being part of the Solution: 

Equality is the way to actual Oneness of Life.

In the Spirit of Life : Equality and Oneness

“There is no spirit to set free. There is no exploring possible without considering every one else as well. If we just explore OUR WILL, we create the world in the way it is NOW. Self responsibility is to do what is best for ALL and that CAN only be done in the way that is best for ALL - A STRUCTURED WAY Considers ALL and SET ALL FREE and there is no INTOXICATING SPIRITS that want to do THEIR own thing as FREE CHOICE. No Choice is EVER FREE - there are ALWAYS consequences.”  

Change is only possible as Equal and One. This means we cannot change the world if we are not accepting ourself as the world, or if we seek to elevate ourself from what is here. This is exactly where religion, spirituality, new age and all belief-system fail, while ignoring, disregarding, denying what is here.

What is here – we have created. The spirits of our past are haunting us in every Now whispering into our ear the Future they project out of fear of losing themselves. 

This fear is like a spectre hovering in the background, keeping us from changing, attempting to preserve its self-definition, living through us, creating ‘who we are’ in this world. In accepting this fear through inaction, indifference, ignorance, denial, suppression, justifications: we are silently giving permission for fear to rule the hearts of this world and direct existence into self-destruction.

No man is an island. 

We cannot exist in separation of each-other, in separation from life without consequence. And this world – is the manifested consequence of who we are, what we have been, and what we have created. Time to face the truth of ourselves – it is Here.

Let's bring all our ‘spirits’ Here to be faced and purified until only LIFE remains as who we all really are. Real dignity, actual value: LIFE – the breath of life as equality and oneness, as the breath we all share in every moment.

Separation is not the way. Equality is. Not as a mental concept, but as a living principle - the starting point of every breath.

“When we need to remember where we are and who we are, we are Lost. When we are HERE, we will be Aware that we Have created HERE as what it is now and we have no excuse but to direct HERE to what is best for All. To be LOST is not real, it is only a television series. Memories are Always the Past. Memories are Never HERE as LIFE. Stop listening to the LOST that say you must Remember yourself. They are LOST in the ILLUSION of self created Light and Love Memories.” 

Yes, it may be ‘easier’ to remain secluded in one’s own mind and call it ‘mystical’. I have done this too, I have walked the path of spirituality in search of myself until I realized I am here; until I realized for myself that I was only creating an alternate reality bubble in separation from all that is here, while the challenge is in fact within this world and every breath we are faced with.

Yes, change takes time and we may not see the results of our contribution in our lifetime - yet every decision we make, even that of indifference, has an impact on the future, the children to come, this world as a whole, in all-times to-come. The mere fact that we are HERE is evidence of our responsibility.

Mankind is failing and falling exactly at this point of “life is too short” or “what can I do!?” - that is where most will start creating excuses and justifications to not have to stand-up and do what it takes for an accumulative effect that will bring forth actual change; most will find a way to simply ‘cope with’ what is here. Trapped in survival and self-interest, most will not care what kind of world they leave behind.

To ‘accept’ this world as it is and ‘that’s that’ : is to give permission for and allow things to continue in the world as we know it. And this world is clearly UNACCEPTABLE.

Investigate the solution of Equality. Not as a mental concept, but as a living principle: Let it be the starting point of every breath – 

Who will you be?

Demilitarization | No more wars

Why is the End of all war the only way to LIFE?

We can only change things through and as 'who we are' and how we co-exist. If we exist within war and separation -- how will that ever change this reality, this world?

We are seeing everywhere on Earth that protests, resistance, separation and the attempts of 'cleaning' the status quo through violence or force bring nothing in the end, no actual change; because the starting-point is not self-realization and the taking of responsibility for/as what is here as all as one as equal; but rather blame, finger-pointing, separation : in other words war.

The same principle is valid for the individual self-realization/purification process of each being. As long as we exist in a state of 'war' within ourselves and our interactions, this world will be one of war. One is only able to purify the mind by actually changing the being - realizing in self-honesty what we have become and what has been accepted and allowed within the 'hierarchy' on earth and all the 'hierarchies' and 'power-games' in the mind.

Thus the change must be self-willed, in actuality, through 'man know thyself' and taking responsibility.

Therefore the 'purifying' of our world - equal and one with the purifying of ourselves - can only be done in equality to and full responsibility of 'what is here'; it is done in actuality as we walk, in every breath, as we live the solution into creation, into beingness, as 'who we are'.


Demilitarization is the way to go if there's gonna be a future for Humanity.

The question is: will man be kind and brave enough? or will cowardice drive us?
Weapons are only needed in our desperate attempt to hide our inFeariority through an imposed or projected superiority. Amazing Disgrace - the Human Race. It's time to STOP.

Are we EVIL or do we LIVE ?
Where is Life in this world and Where are We in every moment ?
How long will we continue accepting this insanity of existence ? And what could be an actual solution ?

Investigate the principle of Equality; equality & oneness, the actual principle through which we all are facing ourselves Here : our 'Here' being equal to what we have become.
We are always facing 'who we are'.

It is time for Man(to-be)Kind to Stop the insanity and change the accepted 'human nature' that creates/sustains systems that harm life.
It is time to Stop existing as parasites and consider actual change.

Self-Forgiveness to Exorcise the Habits that Inhabit us

Self-forgiveness is a system, a method, a tool to unfold and uncover the systems, patterns, habits one has become; the habits that inhabit us and take over once the trigger is pulled – a word, an image, a smell is enough to press ‘enter’ and the program runs: the human race.

Self-Forgiveness will Exorcise the Habits that Inhabit us; but then we gotta make sure they don't come back.

How do we become ‘who we are’? How come we be-come?

Self-forgiveness is like walking backwards untying the knots/nots one has tied oneself in while wandering/wondering on the thread of ‘life’.

Self-forgiveness is the unfolding of that thread to see How one is knitted, How one be-came.

Man Know Thyself.

Within this, self-honesty emerges – and yet some self-honesty, the willingness to see/face truth/oneself, is required to dare walk this path to begin with...

‘Fascinating’.

No self-forgiveness without self-honesty, and no self-honesty without self-forgiveness.

The more we allow ourselves to See, the more we place ourselves in a position to ‘get a grip’ of it all/of ourselves and determine what we will accept and allow and what not; the more we are able to take self-directive principle and determine ‘who we are’, instead of just following the program and what comes-up to drive us.

To See, however, we need to remove the veils – let go of that which we think we know; let go of that which we like to believe about ourselves, that which we justify the world with, that which we use to make excuses for our fear/’inferiority’ while projecting some ‘superior’ image of ourselves, as we cower and hide and blame others, instead of standing-up for life in self-responsibility.

by Anna Brix Thomsen

Actual self-forgiveness as life comes once we start fathoming the ‘effect’ our ‘cause’ has been having on the whole of life and this world as one; once we start seeing and realizing what it is we have been stand for and perpetuating in this world through all that which we have allowed ourselves to be equal to in our ‘inner realms’.

Seeing eye to eye, in self-honesty, we cannot but humble ourselves. Then – the choice: to either forever remain in negativity, self-anger, self-hate, self-judgment and spitefulness, OR to forgive oneself, let go, and move forward without looking back; to self-will a change that will purify, dignify and rectify self as life.

Through such self-willed ‘intervention’ (is that what ‘divine intervention’ actually is? lol) we start accumulating self-trust because we see and prove to ourselves that we are able to direct ourselves in every moment: we do not have to be victims of ‘circumstances’, we do not have to continue participating in the power-games we are educated with.

At school we learn to build ‘trust’ based in knowledge. Then we compete through knowledge and we even keep knowledge ‘secret’ to have an advantage against others! And that is how we’ve built this world.

Here we have the opportunity to build actual self-trust through ‘man know thyself’: placing ourselves in a position where we are able to determine ourselves in self-honesty and self-will; where we are able to actually move ourselves. This is self-power as life, as we stand-up through self-directive principle to live and walk as self-willed equals of life.

With self-honesty and common sense, we don’t need ‘knowledge & in-formation’ to in-form us of ‘who we are’ and how we are supposed to interact in this world. We can see where this has brought us and it is not a pretty picture. Instead, we can stand-up and in-form ourselves, and form a world that is best for all.

We are going to have to learn to trust each-other and live with each-other. This is a co-existence and no ma is an island. What we cause has an effect and all and everything that is here.

Looking again at the tool of/as self-forgiveness, we can see that: even though we are able to ‘explain’ and present and share self-forgiveness as a method, a system to work with to get to self-realization about who we are (Man Know Thyself) – actual self-forgiveness is something each one must live and discover for self, as self.

Similar it is with self-honesty; it is easier to ‘explain’/share/present what self-honesty is Not, lol. Self-honesty however is something that must be self-realized.

Self-realization, too, can be a process of self-discovery, self-introspection, self-reflection and understanding of How we got to be who/where we are today and How all the experiences and mental/emotional patterns of self were created --- but then to realize self beyond that, to make self real as life beyond conditioned stimulus-response patterns: is another story that can only be self-realized through self-actualization: real-living, real-I, real-time, breath by breath, in every moment.

That’s why it was/is suggested that we walk this process in every breath, one breath at a time, one point at a time, until it’s done. Patience is required - not the easiest of virtues, lol. But is there another way?

Trapped in time, created through time, we must work with time to re-create ourselves in dignity and respect, in a way that we can live with ourselves without regret, without shame; and in a way we can live with each-other without harm, without spite, without secrets.

We are going for it – facing the inevitable that is ourselves.

by Bastian Neumann

“Self honesty takes TIME as you are a creature of TIME and you must understand how you have CREATED yourself through TIME. Once you grasp TIME and how that can be manipulated, you will realize the importance of being in TIME and on TIME, directing time as the TIMEKEEPER called BREATH until all time can be trusted to serve only LIFE. When this is done – we will have ETERNAL time as no matter who will be born where, it will be into heaven here on EARTH” – Bernard Poolman

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Re-defining Ascension in Equality & Oneness

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a process of self-actualization...

ART by Ann van den Broeck

One cannot view the ‘person’ in separation from the whole/world; because in fact it is who each one is that creates the world as we know it.

Self-Honesty as life is not about ‘rules’. If all were self-honest and lived as life which means as equals, no rules would be needed to ‘protect’ one from another.

Observe and notice that ‘disagreement’ is always coming from mind/separation/self-righteousness that is ego-centered, while ‘agreement’ always come from physical/actual/life-awareness that is holistic.

At Desteni we work on ‘evolving’ the mind through self-will to be equal and one as Life, as that which is best for all.

We work on and suggest ‘stopping the mind’ of separation that is our conditioned beliefs, fears as well as mental and emotional patterns, and ‘elevating the mind’ as who we are/have become from a limited one-dimensional reality (ego) that is split in time to an All-encompassing physical reality Here –

This is the ‘highest’ one can get in ‘ascension’: to stand accountable for ‘who we are’ in all ways and start Living a co-existence that is best for all. That is Equality and Oneness as Life. Then ‘love’ is ‘work made visible’ as self-realized life.

It is going to take ‘time’ as it is a process through time and space, but no self-realization is possible in disregard of the context of self, which is: this world, this reality.

ART by Bastian Neumann

R.u.APE ? Man Know Thyself. On Rape and Raping and where the fuck it comes from

'Rape' is a phenomenon that not only pertains to partnership/relationship/sex - but also our entire existence:
the raping of our earth, the raping of each-other as we leave half of human kind to starve, the raping of animals as we not only kill but torture and abuse to eat, the raping of our children with lies and deception, the raping of ourselves with beautiful pictures and thoughts that can never have enough...
an endless power-game recycled through generations that seek vengeance, a casino-like farce called "life" and given permission for through history-books and politics as well as race, religion, gender and other separative 'id.entities' of mind - no life here, only system; all memes looking out for the jackpot, for 'me'-'me'-'me'...

apart from the obvious question of How self has created oneself and one's own 'process' as such - what is interesting to recognize within investigating and de-constructing the construct of 'rape' is that, if we trace the point to its core, we can see how before man is even able to walk on one's own two feet the 'education' one is fed-with within and as the accepted VALUE-SYSTEM of this world implants its 'impulses' and 'codes' into a breathing innocence, creating 'ideas' of the world as well as self-definitions ---
and that this VALUE-SYSTEM is based on energy as POLARITY and therefore what is created and perpetuated is Man as vampire, a vampire that functions based on 'HAVE' and 'HAVE-NOT', 'love' and 'hate', 'give' and 'take', 'buy' and 'sell' - all from the starting-point of 'me', 'me', 'me'...
and this vampirism is not only visible/evident within our relationships in the smallest scale, but also within the bigger picture of/as the world-system: the money-system.

'Rape' - a point to expose and pull out like weed -
because as long as we require energy as something separate from self ...whatever that may be, the want/need/desire for energy imply we are 'lacking' within/as ourselves and must therefore 'get it' from somewhere - and we'll go 'get it' whatever it takes regardless another and in spite of life... -
as long as we require energy we are not here as life, as source, as self, as equals; as real-loving-living-beings that see all and everything as one with and equal in value as ourselves, and would thus not do anything unto another that we would not want done unto ourself.

the point is definitely 'worth' investigating, especially from the perspective of establishing self-value as life here: to accept oneself and all life as self-worth here, as life, and therefore as equally worthy;
accept life as the value of life and re-align self to not accept any form of rape whatsoever - whether in thought, word or deed.

JEALOUSY

Within facing an interesting point: Jealousy - I realized that Jealousy is 'behind' every 'problem' we are faced-with as Humanity, within as without.


I faced jealousy when I saw for instance that:
My partner would be able to be 'funny' and laugh with other beings but 'not with me'. Or when my partner would give 'more attention' to another being than 'me'. Or another is able to apparently be 'light' and 'careless' and me apparently not.
Or for instance I experienced jealousy when I saw that another was able to 'lead' Guizzy, the new pony, without Guizzy running-off, when I myself was not yet able to do-that. Looking at this point specifically, I see that the point that creates the Jealousy is the point of comparison: where I would create an image/definition of myself as a conclusion from how others apparently perceive/think of me in COMPARISON to another, and what 'conclusions' others would apparently make 'about me' in COMPARISON to another. I saw the point of 'fearing to apparently be seen as 'not as good' or 'worse than' or 'not as capable'' etc. - when in-fact I am the one judging myself, defining myself as 'lacking' etc.
Which of course is a complete fuck-up if one allows oneself to follow such thoughts, 'calculations' and 'interpretations' that are based-in: Comparison.



So - I saw that the main points in relation to Jealousy are:

COMPARISON (between friends, family/siblings, in terms of 'gender', 'intellect', money/'status', possibilities for 'success' etc.)

COMPETITION (in school, in society, family/siblings, gender/looks/body-shape/appearance, in terms of 'abilities' etc.)

RIVALITY / RIVALRY (within family/siblings, friends-circles, societies, groups, leaders, countries etc.)

It seems like Jealousy is the Cause - Comparison/Competition/Antagonism/Rivalry etc is the Play-Out - and Spitefulness is the Effect.
The Cause being 'who we are', Playing-Out 'who we are' through 'what we Do' and 'what we Participate-in', creating an Effect Equal and One as 'who we are':
Creator - Creating - Creation --- the 'holy'-Trinity as Self - 'a Self' defined in Separation from the Whole, in Separation from Life.


Whether Spitefulness or Jealousy is at the 'beginning' or the 'end' of this 'holy'-Trinity = is Irrelevant: because the Result is an 'infinite'-Cycle, a 'Vicious-Circle', a Trap - a Cycle of Abuse and Denial of Life.



JEALOUSY is based-on the Differences of what we perceive to HAVE and NOT-HAVE - - and the FEAR of being 'less', that goes hand-in-hand with the DESIRE to be 'more'.
Thus what is evident in all of this is: the 'inherent Inability' to be EQUAL, the
unwillingness to SEE that underneath the 'make-up', the 'form', the 'gender', the 'intellect', the 'money', the 'access-oires', the 'appearance'/the picture - we ARE EQUAL.

The point that is not allowing us to Realize that we ARE EQUAL is the point of Possession through and as Jealousy - wherein we will support the accepted separation and the Polarity of/as 'superior'-'inferior'-Perceptions - by going-into Comparison, Competition, Antagonism, Rivality.

And why? Because we are seemingly not able to recognize our own 'value' as Life, not able to Accept ourselves and look at the practical perspective of 'our own process' and 'another's process' - - which is in-essence a process of Equalization, Amalgamation and REALization - possible only through Forgiveness: through the letting-go of Everything we have defined ourselves by and as, letting-go of 'who we perceive we are', letting-go of our apparent 'specialness' and the need to be 'someone', the need to be 'important', the need for 'power'.


Thus, if one is able to self-honestly look-at and see the points of Jealousy - - these points 'carry' within them as them the practical-Key to their 'transcendence', meaning:
In allowing Self to See the existent Jealousy - Self-Intimacy is possible. In allowing Self to See 'who I am' within that Jealousy - Self-Honesty is possible. In allowing Self to See the Consequence/Side-Effects of Jealousy - Self-Forgiveness is possible.

In the actual Stopping of the projected 'feelings', beliefs and perceptions that cause and support Jealousy - and within Realizing the SELF-Responsibility to make Self Real as Life, thus Equal to ALL expressions as One - - it can be seen that the points of Jealousy can be turned-into a Gift for Self within and as the Process of Equalizing ourselves and stopping the Separation we have accepted and allowed within ourselves;
Realizing that: 'if another has 'more' or is 'more' able - I do not need to judge this point, I do not need to have an emotional reaction toward this point - Let me see things for what they are :
If another is 'more able' - it is because 'they' are actually allowing themselves / pushing themselves / willing themselves to 'do-it'/'be-it' - - and thus I am equally able-to - and I may look at How 'this' or 'that' expression/application is possible and become-it Equally. No-one is standing in my way, but my own 'hold' onto self-definitions, perceptions, beliefs, fears, desires and denials.



In many cases I have found that the points I was experiencing jealousy towards were 'not real' and that the beings I was jealous-of were merely 'showing-off' something, or 'acting-out' something from the starting-point of wanting attention or 'trying to be something'. When I realized that, jealousy stopped.

This is not to say that there is any excuse or justification for Jealousy /for allowing the 'feeling' of Jealousy in any way whatsoever. We must will ourselves to Stop Jealousy in all its forms, whether it is jealousy of something 'real' or 'not-real' - because it is never about the 'other'. Jealousy is always showing us something about ourselves - 'who we are' as what we're accepting and allowing within ourselves.


Jealousy exists through a Comparison between: an accepted self-definition based-on the perception of: 'Lack', 'less-than', 'not-having', 'not good-enough', 'unloved', 'unworthy' etc. - and the desired-Projection of something 'better', 'more', 'more valuable', 'more worthy', 'more abundant', 'more able' and so-on.

It is obvious that at the bottom of every such 'point' as an 'experience' (made-'real' through perception/belief) - one will find: Jealousy.

'Money' is a Manifestation of Jealousy
'Power' is a Manifestation of Jealousy
'Luxury' is a Manifestation of Jealousy
'Marriage' is a Manifestation of Jealousy
'Relationship' is a Manifestation of Jealousy
'Friendship' is a Manifestation of Jealousy
'Having-Children' is a Manifestation of Jealousy
'Having-Pets' is a Manifestation of Jealousy
'Consumerism' is a Manifestation of Jealousy
'Sports' is a Manifestation of Jealousy
'Studying' is a Manifestation of Jealousy
'Working' is a Manifestation of Jealousy
'Science' is a Manifestation of Jealousy
'Spirituality' is a Manifestation of Jealousy
'Healing' is a Manifestation of Jealousy
'Cults' is a Manifestation of Jealousy
'War' is a Manifestation of Jealousy
'Murder' is a Manifestation of Jealousy
'Rape' is a Manifestation of Jealousy
'Abuse' is a Manifestation of Jealousy
'Poverty' is a Manifestation of Jealousy
'Survival' is a Manifestation of Jealousy
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'Disease' is a Manifestation of Jealousy

Jealousy is the human-Disease; the Human is Dis-Eased because of Jealousy.

Jealousy is 'functioning' within and as Energy.
Accumulation of Energy and the Desire for Energy is a Manifestation of Jealousy - - we have become 'Energy-Vampires' as a Manifestation of Jealousy out of our Fear of Lack, Fear of Loss, Fear of Not-Having, Fear of 'Death', Fear of Not-Being - - which in itself is in-fact a confirmation that we are Not-Being, we are Not-Real, because we are not Sustaining ourselves, we are not Sustaining Life - we are feeding-off each-other - - we are feeding-off what's left of Life within ourselves and each-other - - and then we Die.

What is there really to be 'jealous-of' within this human-existence?

And what stands in our way of becoming Real, Being Real - but ourselves and that which we believe we are: the Energy we follow, the Thoughts we follow, the Emotions we follow, the Fear we follow, the Regret we follow.

What stands in our way of Seeing what Matters - but our Choice of 'what we give attention-to', what we 'feed', what we dare to regard as 'important' and 'substantial' - when we are in-fact denying ourselves the very Substance that we are.