2012 Sex Evolution & Sexual Revolution

The world is established and formed through who we are and how we co-exist in our relationships within it. Thus, it is relationships / agreements / partnerships that will build the foundation for a new world.
A new living-reality of relationships must be established through communication, transparency and agreement, to transcend the patterns of dependency, separation, secrecy and manipulation and thus dishonesty and deception, and to transform relationships into agreements of life that support self in learning to live and co-exist in self-honesty and mutual respect. This will purify existence from the inside out and dignify life into a living process of self-exploration, growth and expression.

We can see that Sex plays a major role in the current system, both from the world-perspective in terms of capitalism, consumerism, abuse, exploitation and the consciousness of buy and sell, the consciousness of polarity, of addiction, of abuse; as well as from the perspective of the individual, wherein sex is/has been a point of secrecy, power-games, competition, manipulation, obsession, generally the diminishment and exploitation of life as ourselves due to the fake ‘values’ we adopt and ‘desires’ based on the ‘education’ we are brainwashed with through media, parents, peers/school, pornography – while we’ve lost all self-respect as a species and have difficulty accepting and embracing/supporting ourselves and thus seek for that approval in separation from ourselves.

Our relationships are based on the impressions we’ve gathered throughout our first relationships in life, beginning with our parents. It is vital to free ourselves from patterns and take self-responsibility in transforming the accepted ‘human nature’ into something that is worthy of life on this planet.
Self-acceptance, self-trust, self-honesty, self-respect – these are values that assist in establishing relationships of trust, respect, honesty, transparency and strength.

Sex in this world has become a point that is, in one way or another, an `issue´ for human beings. We can see this in the taboo-nature of Sex, as well as in the secrecy around it.
We seem to have lost our innocence in that regard, and one can ask the question What has become of uncomplicated, direct and transparent physical communication between human beings. Why has Sex become what Sex has become – and what is it exactly that Sex represents and facilitates, apart from the known mating and reproduction functions we are all aware of?

Sex has become a system through which we – consciously or unconsciously – attempt to get validation, approval or `worth´, and equally a system through which we even seek revenge, vengeance or `justice´. We tend to not see these mechanics within ourselves, yet it is clearly seen within society and the depiction of sexual socialization in movies and other arts. We can see this in the evolution of pornography as well as in the human trafficking and sex-slavery that is going in this world, based on and functioning through the very value-system of this existence, of this world consciousness:
a polarity-system manifested as and seen within the current money-system and how it exists within an imposed polarity and a proclaimed scarcity, whereby worth/value is placed in separation from life in accessories of `beauty´, `perfection´, `youth´ and `power´.

Mankind has devalued as life to such an extent, that value is more and more sought-after within external stimuli, external power-sources and accessories of `power´ – because we have completely given up on and abdicated our value as life and each-other´s value as life; otherwise we would not be abusing and exploiting life as ourselves, nor would we be accepting and allowing the current system to continue, which is a system of consumerism, consumption and cons that in the end it consumes us to such an extent that nothing but a weak spark of life remains.

We all are able to see this, as demonstrated, yet we tend to see it in `others´ and `out there´ in the world, and we can spend hours gossiping about these things or moaning and complaining about how the world is turning into an ugly place, without ever looking at how we individually contribute to the existence of the sex-system and all the constructs, industries and markets behind it.

At Desteni we do exactly that, with any and all systems and manifestations or `problems´ of this world. We take the point back to self and have a look at how the `small´ dimension of individual application and participation accumulates into implicit tolerance for the unacceptable – the abuse and exploitation that is happening and is allowed to continue in this world at all levels.

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Facing reality, facing self – we realize that it is both within and without, both above as below, that the revolution, an actual evolution must happen, and it can only be real and substantial if it is self-willed, self-directed, established through transparency, communication, agreement.

We require a new awareness of/as life that will bring forth a new system based in equality and oneness as the value of life that will slowly but surely transform the money-system/world-system and give every being born into this world the actual opportunity –for all equally – to explore and discover themselves and the planet, the universe.

That is what we are busy with at Desteni and we see that:
on the smaller scale, it is every individual that is undergoing a process of self-realization, which is unfolding either in denial and suppression and thus through rather traumatic events that will wake a person wake-up to reality; or through self-directive participation/application in life within self-honesty and self-responsibility.


Who are we / who am I, individually, within Sex? What are the relationship-constructs that manifest and perpetuate the power-games and mind-delusions which in turn feed the world-system of consumerism and maintain the world as we know it? What are the seemingly small acceptances we compromise ourselves to within everyday-participation, which in turn allow the `show´ to go on and everybody including ourselves to keep their make-up on and pretend that everything is okay?

At Desteni we walk in awareness the process of self-honesty and self-purification/self-perfection in the context of creating a new world in self-responsibility – to end all abuse and stop the deception of energy that is manifested as the money-system of this world based on ‘educated’ ideas of ‘power’ and ‘beauty’. A process of dignifying life as ourselves and establishing a co-existence that is worthy as life.



“What is SEX” is a series that discusses Sex and the manifestation of Sex in a holistic context, giving perspectives from the smaller (the atom, DNA, organs and functions of the human physical body in its multidimensionality) to the bigger (history of the sex system, consciousness and energy, relationships and mind-control, the unified consciousness field, history of mankind and the universe...)

Here is an overview / intro video interview you can watch:

The  “What is SEX”  series:
What is Sex? - Introduction (Part 1-6)
What is Sex - Part 7
What is Sex - Part 8
What is Sex - Part 9
What is Sex - Part 10
What is Sex - Introducing the Relationship-System - Part 11
What is Sex - The Primary and Sub Relationship-Systems of Mind and Sex - Part 12
What is Sex - Relationship Profiling - Part 13
What is Sex - How we create Relationship Profiles - Part 14

There are more series and cool stuff to be discovered at the EQAFE.
Check out the ART by Desteni Artists at http://desteniartists.blogspot.com and Investigate the research, application and solutions shared at http://Desteni.org and http://EqualMoney.org

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The Bible and other Cults

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"The Bible and other Cults" - or 

Cultivating Relationships of actual Life Value 

The bible is not 'wrong' – it is a tool like everything else - the only problem is man's interpretation of the tools that exist in this world. Do the bible cult and other religions ‘love their neighbour’? Look at the middle east, look at the far west. Everywhere we look, we see man use the tools in a way that is called ‘divide and conquer’ – this is based in fear and only creates fear.

Why do we raise our children in fear, why do we run our relationships in fear, how can we ever ever be ‘for real’ if everything we do and everything we are: is based in fear. The relationships in our world could be something that shows us what we do not (yet) see of ourselves, like a mirror held into our face so that we may see what has become of us, so that we may have a chance to change ourselves, so that we may take responsibility.

Yet we don't do that. Our relationships are based in power-games, and power-games are based in fear; and fear is mind-control working from the inside out. 

With initially a small group of individuals that started investigating the practical aspects of reality and the individual within it all, we said 'enough is enough - no more fear!', and at Desteni we come together to stop this mind-control and support ourselves and each-other in seeing eye to eye, no longer hiding from reality, no longer hiding from ourselves. Self-honesty; Man Know Thyself. 

It's not about the group in the end and Desteni as a group will eventually no longer exist – when the whole world is One group, One family, One life ...names are irrelevant. At the moment however it IS about the group because that is the reference point we have created together in value of life, and that is where we make sure that ego will stand no chance against life. Through the group each one is mirrored ten-fold to help ourselves see, to make sure we don't fuck with ourselves, but remain response-able for 'who we are'; to make sure we do not delude ourselves with self-sabotage or illusions of grandeur – but instead remain ‘here’, grounded, humble, working with whatever comes up, bringing any given point to an alignment that is supportive of life as who we really are.

This is self-empowerment; the transcendence of ego beyond polarity in practical living application. After all – it’s about ‘who we are’, and it’s ourselves we gotta live with in the end.

We’ve had enough Napoleons, we’ve had enough Stalins; we’ve had enough abused, enough abusers. 

Enough is enough! The world is full of cults and look, one can identify them as being exclusive. 

We need a CULTURE of LIFE that is all-inclusive : we need to Cultivate Life in ourselves and each-other. Life is One, Life is All, Life is Equal. The value of life is life.

Art by Damian Ledesma 

Exclusive relationships, including if not especially family and friends, are often only functional as long as one submit to them and does not change. As soon as anything goes deeper, beyond the surface of things ‘as we know them’... it is perceived as a threat.

Everyday relationships that have a ‘personal’ face-to-face reality should be a place where all back-chat can be sorted out through intimate communication.

Why is this not happening? Why do we not learn to trust ourselves and each-other? Why do we treat our ‘loved ones’ like territory?
A person should not be ‘territory’ – Each grown-up person should be able to make their own decisions about what they stand for in life, who they will be/become and what kind of world they want to bring forth for the children to come. 

We should stop projecting our own fears and desires upon our children – This has not made the world a better place, it has only passed on the ‘sins of the fathers’ that seem to loop into infinity unless something, unless someone Stop and stand-up to say ‘Till Here No Further.

How can the world really change, if all change is faced with fear...
How can the world really change if every one submit and submerge oneself to the way things have always been...
How can the world really change, if you and me, the building blocks of our world, do not change...

In this one world we share, in this space-time reality, everyone is walking the same process and is faced with the same points at different times in life. Facing oneself and one’s reality is inevitable. Blaming and pointing fingers doesn’t work; as each one is always self-responsible, each one is always facing oneself, and all will inevitably face all and everything. 

Whether one walk this life process in directive will or whether one wait for things to ‘happen’ before one is forced to face oneself – the outcome is in the end the same. The difference is in the degree of inner suffering and the time to self-realization, both points directly connected to self-responsibility.

At Desteni we are walking the path of self-responsibility, taking things into our hands and working on accelerating the process so as to prevent further suffering in the world and within ourselves.

Family and friends is the system-unit we know best.

We are born of a system into a system. Family as the first and smallest system compartment is the group that defines ‘who we are’, give us ‘purpose and meaning’ based on tradition, culture, religion, belief, society/status, forefathers: the family determines what it is one must give ‘value’ to.

Individuals are seen as the ‘keepers’ of those values, and are in fact the ‘keepers’ of the system, this world as we know it. Because see – everywhere we look, we’ll see people fight over traditions, religions, beliefs; people kill each-other over different ‘values’, while the highest value – life itself as who we all really are – is disregarded.

It seems the very fight for one’s ‘own values’ is what serves the ‘forked tongue of the snake’: it feeds the ego and at the same time preserves the status quo – the world system as we know it.

The ‘big players’ of the world stage have long understood this principle, and rule the whole world by what is called ‘divide & conquer’: let them fight, let them blame each-other, let them be weak.

Obviously any significant change in the application of the average person’s separatist behaviour and egotistic ‘human nature’ is perceived as a threat to the ‘status quo’. To deal with this sudden ‘fear’, the system will seek ways of ‘control’ and will try and make the individual submit and submerge itself to ‘its grouping’ – until the individual is put back into ‘its place’.

As long as we fear each-other, as long as accept ourselves as inFearior: the system prevails.

At Desteni we understand/realize that a change in the world cannot come forth by itself; an actual change in the world cannot come forth without change of the individual through self-will to no longer be subject to the current and seemingly infinite system of separation, fear and abuse while history is repeating.

If we don’t stop history, history will stop us – and mankind as a whole will be facing its end while it’s busy fighting itself in a trivial war against each-other.

This current system of separation exists both within and without and is the consciousness we have all accepted and allowed to be ‘this existence’ as if it’s real, as if it’s who we really are; we call it ‘the ways of the world’ and ‘human nature’, while our consciousness, our mere existence not only undermines the value of life but actually harms that which we all have in common: Life.

We see it all around, and it’s time we stop.

Art by Matti Freeman

Heaven on Earth is possible Here ...If we stand-up and stop this hell

STOP The Game

On the Chessboard of this CONsciousness-reality

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Do you CHOOSE whether you´re Black or White??

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Whether you´re Black or White: You play the Game

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Are you defined by the Game?

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Do you defend the Game?

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Would you still defend it if you were on the opposite side of the COIN? If you were subject to Starvation, Hunger, War, Famine, Abuse, Molestation…

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Do you defend your Color – your CULTure - your Position in the Game?

Do you want what you ´do not have´?

Can you Stop the Game?

for `Love´ to exist = Hate must exist

for `Freedom´ to exist = Limitation must exist

for `Peace´ to exist = War must exist

for `Justice´ to exist = Abuse must exist

for `God´ to exist = Fear must exist

for `Control´ to exist = Distrust must exist

for `Wealth´ to exist = Starvation must exist

for ‘Oneness’ to exist = Separation must exist

for `Angels´ to exist = `Evil´ must exist

for ‘Masters’ to exist = Slavery must exist

Is this the Game you want to play?

Don´t you see that those who `Enjoy the Game´ only do so because they HAPPENED to be on the `Sunny-Side´ of ‘life’?

Look:

ALL is Here in and as Self

The Game exist in and as Self

SELF must Stop the Game

STOP the Game & SEE what is Real Here

Find COMMON SENSE - Support LIFE

LIFE is EQUAL in ALL Beings