Self-Honesty & Self-Awareness Steps for the Elite

The Elite?

If you are reading this – you ARE the elite. I am the elite. All of us who have a certain roof over our head, a certain access to water and electricity, a certain access to money and an income that ensures everything one needs for a dignified living in this physical reality: WE are the ones that determine the evolution of the system, the evolution of life on planet earth – through everything that we do and sadly also through everything that we don’t do.

The ones in less fortunate positions such as famine, war, starvation, forced labor, are all enslaved to conditions they have no power to change, because they are cast out of the system we all daily participate in, they have no voice in this world, no vote to make their voice heard, and often no vocabulary to formulate the actual state of affairs they are being subjected to.

It is therefore up to the rest of us to find it within us to stand up for LIFE, and that includes every living thing on this existence, from the smallest to the biggest; to find it within us to realize our responsibility by the mere fact that WE RAE HERE, born into conditions that give us a relative power to move things, to voice our position, to make a stand and make sure that how we live and co-exist is practically bringing-forth a better life, a dignified life for ALL.

To find this will of life within us, self-honesty is required and practical common sense – to see who it is we are, how we came to be, and how it is that we are in fact creating this world; and to stop creating from a starting-point of fear, self-interest and separation, and instead start creating in awareness, in the realization that we exist in the context of life and that life is interdependent.

We have done already great harm to ourselves, each-other and our home planet – but this should not stop us from standing-up and stating “till here and no further”; it should not stop us from finding practical ways to stop the accepted ways of the world and transform the current system within and without into a living-expression of what is best for all – after all, what is best for all, is best for you and me.

This is obviously not going to be a quick fix, nor an easy journey. There is much re-education to be done in terms of freeing ourselves from the conditioned survival fear that keeps us existing against each other; freeing ourselves from the mind control that is being thrown at us from the moment of birth and really ask ourselves the question: what would we have liked to learn and experience as children coming into this world, how would the opportunities to explore and express ourselves look like – and what practical infrastructure would a system require to in fact provide the children with such quality of life; what will it take to change ourselves in such a way that we break the cycles of abuse and separation, that we stop history from repeating and really, truly, create a new world – for real, for ALL.

Yes - we require an entirely new system. At the same time however, we require to realize that –as with everything in existence–  it all starts with self. We are the building blocks of this world, as this world exists through and as the relationships we entertain – in the smallest of details.


Check out the series Self-Awareness Steps for the Elite – and make use of the tools offered to assist yourself toward self-honesty and a dignified existence.
Allow yourself to question self-interest and our fear-based existence, allow yourself to see yourself in a bigger context: the context of life, the context of oneness and equality as creation. 
Watch the following interview for a taste of what such a process entails:

Self-Honesty

I've been walking this process for more than four years now. Self-honesty entails the willingness to see/ recognize/ reveal the 'hidden motives' on the basis of which our beliefs, fears, desires, self-definitions are created/ adopted/ accepted. Self-honesty also entails to see the patterns we participate in (mental, emotional, behavioral) and understand/realize the cause/ beginning/ origin and effect/ outflow/ consequence - to ultimately take self-responsibility to change self in a way that no more (self-)abuse is allowed. Self-honesty is the process of revealing to myself where and how I am being self-dishonest, where and how I deceive or sabotage myself - to then investigate the self-corrective/ self-purifying practical steps required to stop - and 'transform' myself into a being I can live with. That is in the end the ultimate 'question' life confronts us with: "Can you live with yourself in the face of life, in the face of all that is here?" - "Have you stood up for yourself, have you stood up for life - What impact have you/ has your participation had on life as a whole?"

The main tools I utilize to work on points I am faced with throughout my everyday life are writing and self-forgiveness, which in few words could be described as: self-introspection, writing out the points/patterns, investigating what is 'behind' the particular thoughts/ emotions/ beliefs/ (self-)definitions, see the consequences for self/life, see what I am allowing within self/the world through my acceptances per implication, and make the choice to stop/ let-go/ forgive myself.
From here, what is required is a 'new script' which self determines in self-honesty: How do I want to 'purify'/'correct' myself in this regard? What is acceptable and what is unacceptable for life/ freedom/dignity? How do I want to live/apply the change practically? Self-honesty from here would be to direct myself towards/as self-change in the very moments where the particular pattern I worked with comes-up or gets triggered again. That is where I then 'test myself' in reality, that is where I 'prove' to myself that I am in fact taking self-responsibility, that I can in fact trust my word, that I am in fact directing myself to live as best for life, as best for all, of which i am equally part of.

Obviously this is a huge 'subject' and as I said I have been walking this 'process' for many years already. This started when I came across Desteni (I had been following a 'spiritual' path up to that point and was busy focusing on the 'positive' and suppressing/denying the 'negative' within self/the world) and that is when I started to participate on the forums and write and communicate with others that were also busy exploring life and themselves and searching for 'truth';
I started exploring the principle of equality and oneness, understanding polarity and how it works and how we trap ourselves and each-other within such system (within and without), and discussing practical solutions for self and the world so that we may finally make this world and life something that is no longer abusive/deceptive/exploiting; something that is worth living and worth leaving to our children without regret, without fear, without harm.

What is most fascinating is that, although this process started as a self-realization process for the individual, we concluded that we cannot be preoccupied with self only while the world is burning and half the population is left to starve; that we must first create the structural support and transform the system(s) of our world in a way that each living being can have a dignified life - then all are free to explore self and all have actual real choice to be and become who we truly are, and do what we really enjoy doing - without the enslavement of the current money-system that determines our choices and decides who lives and who dies.

Therefore at the moment we are focusing on bringing-forth a new equality system, while of course each one individually continues to walk the process of self-honesty, taking self-responsibility, developing self-trust, purifying ourselves and our relationships, and establishing the self-will from which emerge the freedom as we break free from the chains of 'old' and ingrained habits and patterns of this system consciousness that is based on fear, self-interest and basically war/competition/winners and losers. A win-win solution is possible for life. And that is the process of life as oneness and equality, within as without.


Check out the open forum at http://forum.desteni.org - much is shared there and people/we utilize the forum to write, share, discuss and support ourselves and each-other in self-honesty and practical common sense.

Check out the Equal Money website. The website will change in about a week's time with an interactive first page where people will be able to vote and comment on the goals and policy development thus far on the Equal Money System. There will also be an Equal Money wiki. Make sure you get involved, make sure your voice counts for what is best for all!

Check out the awakening-awareness self-support stuff at EQAFE!
Here are some products I recommend:
Evolution and Equal Money
Virus Free Mind
How I was able to Hear the Desteni Message - for FREE!

2012 Forgive & Forget Anonymous

The year 2012 is said by many to be a year of change.
So perhaps the question is: How do we expect change to come forth?

Anonymous claim “We do not forgive. We do not forget.” This is the very nature of consciousness – the very state of mind – that manifests war in this world: by seeking revenge, by directing blame, hate, rage, by thinking in ‘us and them’, by looking for ‘justice’ within separation and power-games. All this is not allowing one to make the effort and really understand the nature of the system and how it came to be; how it continues to exist, what keeps it alive and how we are all responsible.

Here is an extraordinary interview that gives perspective on the nature of the world-system and sheds light onto the ‘how’ of our collective responsibility for What is Here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XSJOkR0YMCE


We are Destonians. We are not anonymous; on the contrary, we stand with our own names and dare to take-on the systems of our world. Because we realize responsibility for all and everything that is here.

Instead of revenge and power-games, rather we should all in fact FORGIVE and FORGET.
Why?
Because there is no way we will sort this world out through revenge, vengeance or the punishment. So much evil has occurred already and what we see is history merely repeating – no one is better than another in this world-system. We are ALL responsible, either through direct participation as cause, or through our acceptances and allowances as the effect of giving permission for things to exist as they do.
Within this whole CHAOS of cultural, religious, racial, political, ideological separation and dogmatism that exists and rules the hearts of men, there is only one way to get past this alive: Forgiveness.

Obviously forgiving others is not the point, since it is the actual tangible change that makes forgiveness real and meaningful. Forgiveness without change is useless. Therefore, each one can in essence only forgive oneself, since only self can change self for real.
Ultimately we will have to forgive each-other if we want to build a new world where we co-exist as life – and that is a point where an equality system will be of tremendous support: Forgiving all debt and establishing a new value-system based on the value of life will equalize everyone in freedom, rights, wealth and opportunities/choice in life. This is a big step that will take time and a certain process – but for now, each one can start forgiving self and changing self in a way that is of dignity and respect to life – to self, as all as one as equal.

When I say Forgive and Forget, it’s not that we ‘forget’ as you might think. But we can let go!
We do not ‘forget’ that which is real as ourselves because it’s Here. Everything is Here. Only that which has not been real – goes. It will either be LET GO of, willingly, in awareness, or it will crumble down in the end, just like the systems of the world currently.
We can Forgive and Forget the separation, the hate, the accepted ‘human nature’, the greed, the fear, the vengeance and blame. We can Forgive and Forget the power-games. We can Forgive and Forget the systems of enslavement that we’ve been allowing to govern, determine, define us – and we can create a system of life for life, taking into consideration every living thing on earth including the planet!

FORGET 2012 –
2012 is not gonna save anything: because every one will have to save themselves.

FORGIVE –
For-Give:  Give For Life.
Stop giving to the mind, the ghosts of the past, the fears and desires of a conditioned existence that is looping into implosion, self-destruction, the end.

Let’s make the end a New Beginning.
Make the decision to Stop.
Within this, we BECOME “the end” – and do not have to literally experience destruction and drive this existence into its doom.

The end is here. We are the end; and we are the Beginning.  Let’s start Here and Now, breathe, birth ourselves into Living, birth ourselves as Life. Let’s have LIFE on this planet, starting with ourselves and expanding into a new system that will restore dignity of life and enable mutual respect, self-expansion and real power as creators –
as Equals of Life.

Power-games of inferiority/superiority have proven to be unworthy and unsupportive for all – We can all agree that as living-beings that breathe on this planet we are equal. We require a CLEAN SLATE as humanity to start over in a new way of LIFE. This clean slate can only be achieved through self-realization, self-forgiveness, self-honesty and respect for life. This starts within each one individually – and collectively we can support every body in the process of self-realization through a new system of actual life-support.

Investigate the solution of equality:
http://desteni.org
http://equalmoney.org
http://eqafe.com

The MessAge of ChristMESS – An Orgasm for Capitalism | Trigger-Happy through Feelings and Long Live Consumerism while Millions Starve

How did the civil-LIE-zed world make a MESS out of Jesus Christ?

How did the mental manipulation by some few in power MESS with the message of equality?

Why didn’t the EQUALITY that Jesus presented prevail, but was instead transmuted into separatist dogmas of the One True God – which is in fact what is being promulgated by all religions regardless the ‘name’ of ‘their god’?

How did the message of Oneness become the message of Polarity, based on and supporting a bipolar system of reward and punishment – which is in essence what Capitalism is today: a system that turns you into capital at the moment of birth and begins with your brainwashing as soon as you learn to speak…

Religion is Capitalism and Worship is Consumerism. Reward and Punishment is the two sides of the same coin, they called it ‘love’:  which is in fact ‘Feeling’ – yet another bipolar construct of the system with two polarity sides: love and fear.

Reward and Punishment.

In the current system you can’t have one without the other. And while that is evidently easy to see, we’ve spent eons of time fighting for ‘love’, struggling for ‘rewards’ – never really considering that there must be ANOTHER WAY, a way that is not bound to the polarity of the system that keeps us trapped and spinning up and down…

What will it take to break through the programming that is the brainwashing each one is subjected to under the auspices of the system from the moment we are born, regardless whether rich or poor, good or evil, black or white…?

What will it take to find our way to Real Oneness as Life?

Oneness by definition entails Equality. Without Equality, Oneness is deception. This deception is propagated through every religion as the oneness of that religion/group only. The same goes for any group or grouping that is set to define itself in separation and ‘protect’ itself/its members against the rest of the world.

Any separation requires religion, requires a belief-system. This can be seen very clearly in the evolution of religion, especially the New Age, where the need to ‘protect’ oneself against for instance ‘negative energy’ is the point/belief that creates the separation, the fear, the need, the hope, and thus the capital. 

Yet we suppress what is here, within and without, daily in our faces for all to see: the truth of this world, the truth of ourselves. It is not pretty, despite the bright shiny things we decorate ourselves/the world with.

The capital even attempts to justify the fact that we do not give a fuck about half the world starving. To do that, the systems use the ‘logic’ of reward and punishment, making belief that for instance “each one gets what they deserve” or that there are “life lessons to learn” – despite the fact that clearly we do not remember any past lives and therefore it is impossible to learn a lesson for life through starvation, murder, rape or any abuse for that matter.

What will it take for the world to STOP justifying the exploitation of Life?

What will it take to put an end to the system of abuse as capitalism/ consumerism/ escapism/ separatism?

It will take, for one, the guts to see things for what they are and call things by their name.

We’d better start investigating and taking into consideration the interconnectedness of singular points within and as the whole; understanding cause and effect; and acknowledging the manifested consequences we see and experience in our world as the outflows of our action, inaction, acceptances and allowances.

Upon awakening to the truth of this existence, we have no choice but to see common sense and embrace our responsibility as Earthlings, based on the mere fact of the matter that we are Here on Earth, participating in the world system in every moment of breath, and it is through the impulses of our participation that we contribute to forming the world as we know it. 

Therefore, it is through transforming ourselves, our relationships, our interactions and our participation in the world that we are able to transform the world into a place of dignity and respect for life.

Follow the Freedom Blogs and see how more and more people start to break through the conditioned programming of consciousness; more and more people start to stand-up, speak out and expose the atrocities of this world as we have accepted it and still allow it to continue day in day out; more and more people are becoming aware and taking self-responsibility to break through the conditioned matrix and free self from the chains of consumerism, separatism, belief-systems and other habitual and ingrained patterns.

Read the Freedom Blogs for revealing existential perspectives on the mechanics of consciousness and the fabric of existence. 

Join this global movement of self-realization as life in awareness. 

Join the cause of transcending the world system as ourselves: from separation, fear and exploitation, into oneness and equality; 

a co-existence in dignity and freedom – the end of survival and the beginning of LIFE.

The Bible and other Cults

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"The Bible and other Cults" - or 

Cultivating Relationships of actual Life Value 

The bible is not 'wrong' – it is a tool like everything else - the only problem is man's interpretation of the tools that exist in this world. Do the bible cult and other religions ‘love their neighbour’? Look at the middle east, look at the far west. Everywhere we look, we see man use the tools in a way that is called ‘divide and conquer’ – this is based in fear and only creates fear.

Why do we raise our children in fear, why do we run our relationships in fear, how can we ever ever be ‘for real’ if everything we do and everything we are: is based in fear. The relationships in our world could be something that shows us what we do not (yet) see of ourselves, like a mirror held into our face so that we may see what has become of us, so that we may have a chance to change ourselves, so that we may take responsibility.

Yet we don't do that. Our relationships are based in power-games, and power-games are based in fear; and fear is mind-control working from the inside out. 

With initially a small group of individuals that started investigating the practical aspects of reality and the individual within it all, we said 'enough is enough - no more fear!', and at Desteni we come together to stop this mind-control and support ourselves and each-other in seeing eye to eye, no longer hiding from reality, no longer hiding from ourselves. Self-honesty; Man Know Thyself. 

It's not about the group in the end and Desteni as a group will eventually no longer exist – when the whole world is One group, One family, One life ...names are irrelevant. At the moment however it IS about the group because that is the reference point we have created together in value of life, and that is where we make sure that ego will stand no chance against life. Through the group each one is mirrored ten-fold to help ourselves see, to make sure we don't fuck with ourselves, but remain response-able for 'who we are'; to make sure we do not delude ourselves with self-sabotage or illusions of grandeur – but instead remain ‘here’, grounded, humble, working with whatever comes up, bringing any given point to an alignment that is supportive of life as who we really are.

This is self-empowerment; the transcendence of ego beyond polarity in practical living application. After all – it’s about ‘who we are’, and it’s ourselves we gotta live with in the end.

We’ve had enough Napoleons, we’ve had enough Stalins; we’ve had enough abused, enough abusers. 

Enough is enough! The world is full of cults and look, one can identify them as being exclusive. 

We need a CULTURE of LIFE that is all-inclusive : we need to Cultivate Life in ourselves and each-other. Life is One, Life is All, Life is Equal. The value of life is life.

Art by Damian Ledesma 

Exclusive relationships, including if not especially family and friends, are often only functional as long as one submit to them and does not change. As soon as anything goes deeper, beyond the surface of things ‘as we know them’... it is perceived as a threat.

Everyday relationships that have a ‘personal’ face-to-face reality should be a place where all back-chat can be sorted out through intimate communication.

Why is this not happening? Why do we not learn to trust ourselves and each-other? Why do we treat our ‘loved ones’ like territory?
A person should not be ‘territory’ – Each grown-up person should be able to make their own decisions about what they stand for in life, who they will be/become and what kind of world they want to bring forth for the children to come. 

We should stop projecting our own fears and desires upon our children – This has not made the world a better place, it has only passed on the ‘sins of the fathers’ that seem to loop into infinity unless something, unless someone Stop and stand-up to say ‘Till Here No Further.

How can the world really change, if all change is faced with fear...
How can the world really change if every one submit and submerge oneself to the way things have always been...
How can the world really change, if you and me, the building blocks of our world, do not change...

In this one world we share, in this space-time reality, everyone is walking the same process and is faced with the same points at different times in life. Facing oneself and one’s reality is inevitable. Blaming and pointing fingers doesn’t work; as each one is always self-responsible, each one is always facing oneself, and all will inevitably face all and everything. 

Whether one walk this life process in directive will or whether one wait for things to ‘happen’ before one is forced to face oneself – the outcome is in the end the same. The difference is in the degree of inner suffering and the time to self-realization, both points directly connected to self-responsibility.

At Desteni we are walking the path of self-responsibility, taking things into our hands and working on accelerating the process so as to prevent further suffering in the world and within ourselves.

Family and friends is the system-unit we know best.

We are born of a system into a system. Family as the first and smallest system compartment is the group that defines ‘who we are’, give us ‘purpose and meaning’ based on tradition, culture, religion, belief, society/status, forefathers: the family determines what it is one must give ‘value’ to.

Individuals are seen as the ‘keepers’ of those values, and are in fact the ‘keepers’ of the system, this world as we know it. Because see – everywhere we look, we’ll see people fight over traditions, religions, beliefs; people kill each-other over different ‘values’, while the highest value – life itself as who we all really are – is disregarded.

It seems the very fight for one’s ‘own values’ is what serves the ‘forked tongue of the snake’: it feeds the ego and at the same time preserves the status quo – the world system as we know it.

The ‘big players’ of the world stage have long understood this principle, and rule the whole world by what is called ‘divide & conquer’: let them fight, let them blame each-other, let them be weak.

Obviously any significant change in the application of the average person’s separatist behaviour and egotistic ‘human nature’ is perceived as a threat to the ‘status quo’. To deal with this sudden ‘fear’, the system will seek ways of ‘control’ and will try and make the individual submit and submerge itself to ‘its grouping’ – until the individual is put back into ‘its place’.

As long as we fear each-other, as long as accept ourselves as inFearior: the system prevails.

At Desteni we understand/realize that a change in the world cannot come forth by itself; an actual change in the world cannot come forth without change of the individual through self-will to no longer be subject to the current and seemingly infinite system of separation, fear and abuse while history is repeating.

If we don’t stop history, history will stop us – and mankind as a whole will be facing its end while it’s busy fighting itself in a trivial war against each-other.

This current system of separation exists both within and without and is the consciousness we have all accepted and allowed to be ‘this existence’ as if it’s real, as if it’s who we really are; we call it ‘the ways of the world’ and ‘human nature’, while our consciousness, our mere existence not only undermines the value of life but actually harms that which we all have in common: Life.

We see it all around, and it’s time we stop.

Art by Matti Freeman

Heaven on Earth is possible Here ...If we stand-up and stop this hell

Protection of Information Bill awakes ghost of “1984” in South Africa of 2010

“1984” in South Africa of 2010: Secrets Bill & Govt Deafness

The need for transparency and equal access to information is becoming more and more evident as South African policy leans towards a state of affairs that reminds of 1984.
“The Bill is taking away the rights of the public to know and hold those in power accountable”.
Fascinating how something like Information Control, used for nepotism, corruption cover-up and capital control is sold to the public as a “Protection of Information Bill”.

Organizations like The Right2Know Campaign (R2K) stand against the government’s “Protection of Information Bill”.
More than 30 researchers in the field of HIV/AIDS signed a petition against the proposed Bill. The petition was published in the South African Mail & Guardian (15 to 21 October 2010).

I support an Equal Money System based in the equality equation of What’s Best for All. A new equality system based in the value of Life will not only stop corruption, secrecy and the hierarchy structures of ‘elitist power’ – it will also support and protect the transparency of information in all fields, enabling transparent data banks and world libraries available to all, supporting and encouraging real research and the cross-reference of studies. This will in turn support Equal Education and self-motivation and will allow the world citizen to be informed and involved in any field of interest.
We want a world of accountable, self-willed Equals – No gods, no masters, no slaves.
Join us at Desteni and be a vote for world equality, a building block for an Equal Life Foundation where Life is the highest value, the value any future system must be based on: to manifest a world system of actual life-support that will enable a Dignified Life for All.
Given the current condition of the world, we see an Equal Money System as the necessary first step to world equality. Equal Money will transform the value money and equalize power through re-defining our value-system based in LIFE. Everybody must be in a position where self-empowerment is possible. An Equal Money System will facilitate the human realization of life on this one planet we all share.
Do the research:
http://equalmoney.org
http://desteni.co.za

"The Secret" that isn´t one - and yet it is...

"Secret 1": Who is `They´?

HOW do We create `them´?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aj6rxxXhVSI

"Secret 2": Why you don´t know

what happens after DEATH

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nd11d2i0Sk4

"Secret 3": TruthSeekers? SuperHeros? -The deLIGHTful Truth...

HOW MUCH LONGER ARE WE GONNA WAIT FOR OURSELVES?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2WCigGFUb44

STOP the GAME

Man as Sketchbook

we each are like a sketchbook, where those that have gone before us write-in what & who we're supposed to be...the script and the rules of 'the game' - the same rules that were passed onto them by those who have gone before them.

So the world is never-changing. we are accepting the unacceptable -and so it cycles. different stories, same shit.
shame.

we're living a li(F)e.


When we dare to erase all that input and wipe the book blank - we realize that we are actually creator, director.

now we gotta write our own script.
we can't use the tools/rules that were used for the script we erase(d) - because we'd only be creating another version of what has been. even a polarity-version of 'what has been' would still be supporting the system, the 'forces at work' that see the world as a game, humanity on a chessboard - and the game never-stops as long as the figures keep moving, black against white, white against black, winning and losing and winning and losing, in fact just losing, over and over and over again.
there is no stability, no living spirit; only the game and man's urge to win.
...the 'human race'...

it looks like the game has automated itself, the 'big players' long-gone in their own delusion - the only winner: the game itself.

stop the game - now we gotta write our own script.

obviously there's one thing we gotta consider in doing that: it must be livable by all equally, it must consider all Life equally.
the point of LIFE as equal value, as the equal substance we all have in common - is the point that
has been missed.
it is obvious common sense that all Life is equal, but we are not equal to that, we do not live the value of Life.
WE ARE the 'missing link'. the 'missing link' is HERE.

now we gotta realize/materialize the tools we need to support Life in actuality, in fact - to support who we all really are as Life, equally.

what can we do?

be response-able for Life. support ourselves and those in our world in SELF-HONESTY as Life.
we gotta think 'outside the board'. this is not a fucking game. fuck the rules. fuck morality.
there is no morality in this world. it is a lie.
stop power-games, stop blame. there is no-one to blame; blame is merely abdication of

self-responsibility. we are the ones that 've been accepting what is here - the world is showing us who we are. time to say No More!

stand-up and live common sense. use what is here, use the game against itself, support in creating a win-win situation for all Life, each one starting with self, each one in our own 'little' world.
be direct, accept no limitation, accept no justification, accept no separation.

stop fear.
stop greed.
stop beLIEf.
stop dreaming.
stop self-abuse.
stop hiding.
stop blame.
stop revenge.
stop your mind that tells you you are special.
stop your programmed thinking patterns.
think for yourself in common sense.
think for Life.

stop limitation.
LIVE.
accept nothing less than who you really are.

we ARE the tools.
we ARE the canvas, the painter and the brush.

wipe the canvas.
script a live-able Reality for you as for all.
script Living as practical Equality.

so that what we script may stand for eternity - with no shame, no regret.
so that who we are stand for eternity - worthy of Life.
Equal and one as Life.