2012 Sex Evolution & Sexual Revolution

The world is established and formed through who we are and how we co-exist in our relationships within it. Thus, it is relationships / agreements / partnerships that will build the foundation for a new world.
A new living-reality of relationships must be established through communication, transparency and agreement, to transcend the patterns of dependency, separation, secrecy and manipulation and thus dishonesty and deception, and to transform relationships into agreements of life that support self in learning to live and co-exist in self-honesty and mutual respect. This will purify existence from the inside out and dignify life into a living process of self-exploration, growth and expression.

We can see that Sex plays a major role in the current system, both from the world-perspective in terms of capitalism, consumerism, abuse, exploitation and the consciousness of buy and sell, the consciousness of polarity, of addiction, of abuse; as well as from the perspective of the individual, wherein sex is/has been a point of secrecy, power-games, competition, manipulation, obsession, generally the diminishment and exploitation of life as ourselves due to the fake ‘values’ we adopt and ‘desires’ based on the ‘education’ we are brainwashed with through media, parents, peers/school, pornography – while we’ve lost all self-respect as a species and have difficulty accepting and embracing/supporting ourselves and thus seek for that approval in separation from ourselves.

Our relationships are based on the impressions we’ve gathered throughout our first relationships in life, beginning with our parents. It is vital to free ourselves from patterns and take self-responsibility in transforming the accepted ‘human nature’ into something that is worthy of life on this planet.
Self-acceptance, self-trust, self-honesty, self-respect – these are values that assist in establishing relationships of trust, respect, honesty, transparency and strength.

Sex in this world has become a point that is, in one way or another, an `issue´ for human beings. We can see this in the taboo-nature of Sex, as well as in the secrecy around it.
We seem to have lost our innocence in that regard, and one can ask the question What has become of uncomplicated, direct and transparent physical communication between human beings. Why has Sex become what Sex has become – and what is it exactly that Sex represents and facilitates, apart from the known mating and reproduction functions we are all aware of?

Sex has become a system through which we – consciously or unconsciously – attempt to get validation, approval or `worth´, and equally a system through which we even seek revenge, vengeance or `justice´. We tend to not see these mechanics within ourselves, yet it is clearly seen within society and the depiction of sexual socialization in movies and other arts. We can see this in the evolution of pornography as well as in the human trafficking and sex-slavery that is going in this world, based on and functioning through the very value-system of this existence, of this world consciousness:
a polarity-system manifested as and seen within the current money-system and how it exists within an imposed polarity and a proclaimed scarcity, whereby worth/value is placed in separation from life in accessories of `beauty´, `perfection´, `youth´ and `power´.

Mankind has devalued as life to such an extent, that value is more and more sought-after within external stimuli, external power-sources and accessories of `power´ – because we have completely given up on and abdicated our value as life and each-other´s value as life; otherwise we would not be abusing and exploiting life as ourselves, nor would we be accepting and allowing the current system to continue, which is a system of consumerism, consumption and cons that in the end it consumes us to such an extent that nothing but a weak spark of life remains.

We all are able to see this, as demonstrated, yet we tend to see it in `others´ and `out there´ in the world, and we can spend hours gossiping about these things or moaning and complaining about how the world is turning into an ugly place, without ever looking at how we individually contribute to the existence of the sex-system and all the constructs, industries and markets behind it.

At Desteni we do exactly that, with any and all systems and manifestations or `problems´ of this world. We take the point back to self and have a look at how the `small´ dimension of individual application and participation accumulates into implicit tolerance for the unacceptable – the abuse and exploitation that is happening and is allowed to continue in this world at all levels.

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Facing reality, facing self – we realize that it is both within and without, both above as below, that the revolution, an actual evolution must happen, and it can only be real and substantial if it is self-willed, self-directed, established through transparency, communication, agreement.

We require a new awareness of/as life that will bring forth a new system based in equality and oneness as the value of life that will slowly but surely transform the money-system/world-system and give every being born into this world the actual opportunity –for all equally – to explore and discover themselves and the planet, the universe.

That is what we are busy with at Desteni and we see that:
on the smaller scale, it is every individual that is undergoing a process of self-realization, which is unfolding either in denial and suppression and thus through rather traumatic events that will wake a person wake-up to reality; or through self-directive participation/application in life within self-honesty and self-responsibility.


Who are we / who am I, individually, within Sex? What are the relationship-constructs that manifest and perpetuate the power-games and mind-delusions which in turn feed the world-system of consumerism and maintain the world as we know it? What are the seemingly small acceptances we compromise ourselves to within everyday-participation, which in turn allow the `show´ to go on and everybody including ourselves to keep their make-up on and pretend that everything is okay?

At Desteni we walk in awareness the process of self-honesty and self-purification/self-perfection in the context of creating a new world in self-responsibility – to end all abuse and stop the deception of energy that is manifested as the money-system of this world based on ‘educated’ ideas of ‘power’ and ‘beauty’. A process of dignifying life as ourselves and establishing a co-existence that is worthy as life.



“What is SEX” is a series that discusses Sex and the manifestation of Sex in a holistic context, giving perspectives from the smaller (the atom, DNA, organs and functions of the human physical body in its multidimensionality) to the bigger (history of the sex system, consciousness and energy, relationships and mind-control, the unified consciousness field, history of mankind and the universe...)

Here is an overview / intro video interview you can watch:

The  “What is SEX”  series:
What is Sex? - Introduction (Part 1-6)
What is Sex - Part 7
What is Sex - Part 8
What is Sex - Part 9
What is Sex - Part 10
What is Sex - Introducing the Relationship-System - Part 11
What is Sex - The Primary and Sub Relationship-Systems of Mind and Sex - Part 12
What is Sex - Relationship Profiling - Part 13
What is Sex - How we create Relationship Profiles - Part 14

There are more series and cool stuff to be discovered at the EQAFE.
Check out the ART by Desteni Artists at http://desteniartists.blogspot.com and Investigate the research, application and solutions shared at http://Desteni.org and http://EqualMoney.org

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Beautiful People are born from Ugliness | Really? Do we need War to birth Peace?

“The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These people have an appreciation, a sensitivity and understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen”  - Elisabeth Kübler-Ross

So what is implied here is that struggle and abuse is required in order to cultivate strength of character – instead of realizing the simple principle of character as principle: principles that are based on common sense, the value of life and the self-clarity or should we say sanity to not accept or allow abuse NO MATTER WHAT.
It is an indication of EGO wanting to justify struggle, pain, abuse in this world with the concept that THAT is what makes people beautiful, strong, better. It is saying that good can only exist through polarity. What is then the point of the endless war between good and bad? Can anyone ever really win? Or is the whole point damned to eternal re-cycling, with only some feeling BETTER about themselves for a moment, the moment they can say or think “hey what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger”.
Victims of rape, abuse, violence may occasionally stand up and speak out and be strong – but what about the thousands or millions of silent victims that never share their story, that grow up to turn the tables ad be abusers just for the sake of balancing out the equation.

Do you need hurt to find compassion?
Do you need struggle to find peace?
Do you need violence to find gentleness?
Do you need loss to find fulfilment?
If this has been ‘your way’ then the best thing to do is understand that the world that allows fur this kind of bipolar conditions: is the consequence of the system we have accepted to run our lives, our world; it is the effect of our cause, equal and one; a reflection of who we are and how we co-exist.

To defend this polarity and USE it to justify one's belief-systems and validate violence, abuse and the exploitation of life as something that is “part of life” and a “lesson to learn” that “makes you stronger” because that is how you can feel better about yourself or because that is the only way you believe those in struggle find their strength – is ludicrous, is selfish, is EGO, is INSANE.


Let's have a closer look at what it is that is actually being cultivated through such belief-system:

the establishment of injustice and inequality as “just how things are”; the excuse for using blame, projection and pointing fingers at others without understanding how they as all of us have been created through this system of polarity where we are forced to struggle and compete against each-other to supposedly EARN the right to life, to supposedly WIN the race, the human race that is a nazi against itself.

What is being cultivated is the need for and the apparent ‘normality’ of finding 'justice' through separation, through self-gratification, through vengeance, through polarization. Instead of realizing that there can be no justice in this current system/world as we know it: we require a total-new structure to support life in this world, and to do that we have to start thinking OUTSIDE THE BOX we have created/accepted/allowed - OUTSIDE the 'rules' and 'laws' we conduct our existence by. We have to stop fighting for our limitations.


The statement quoted further implies that pain, struggle, loss: is the only way to find understanding, depth, appreciation, beauty.
Existing within such a belief-system, what are the consequences?

One will justify abuse; one will justify suffering; one will continue to create religions and hierarchies; one will continue to create ‘heroes’ and ‘martyrs’, placing them on pedestals, making more people wanna be like them...
One will continue to allow atrocity in this world and call it 'learning lessons' despite no one ever learning anything (because obviously nothing is changing and history is only repeating); one will create ‘martyrdom’ as ‘purpose’, as way of life, in fact as a way to be ‘special’ and ‘gain’ appreciation and some ‘self-worth’...

Is all that not selfish? Is that all in fact not a self-imposed depreciation of oneself as life, a depreciation of life itself!

Such belief-system is clearly a false view of reality based in the self-deception of EGO; painting a beautiful picture to not see the abuse we are existing in, to not have to take responsibility for the atrocity we allow in this world, to not have to wake-up from our denial and stand-up to STOP.

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Religion = Mind = Evil

Religion = Mind = Evil

All religions are based on the same principle: a ‘morality’ that does not stem from the value of Life, but comes from ideas of ‘good’ and ‘bad’, ‘right’ and ‘wrong’ that are said to make one person ‘better’ or  ‘more’ than another.


All religion, worship or following has the potential to be/become fanatic, extremist, fatal – because it adheres to principles of separation, hierarchy, comparison, self-righteousness: this is the essence of WAR;

and that is EVIL.

Time to STOP this insanity!

ART by Jessica Arias

Time for a re-education of humanity in values of life, not of mind. A rich history of ‘great minds’ has proven that nothing can come from the past. No ‘great mind’ has come up with ACTUAL solutions for this world, or it would have already become a better place. It is not.

Let me give an example of ‘mind’:
“One who is not disturbed by anything material has reached immortality” – Vivekananda

This is how in spirituality the word and mind is (ab)used to ‘justify’ the separation, the hierarchy, the worshiping, the hoping and waiting; to ‘justify’ why there’s no actual practical solutions to the world’s conditions  to affect All that is Here;
instead one entertains oneself with self-delusions of grandeur and ‘immortality’ while Billions suffer and starve.

This is sick!

One who is not disturbed by anything material has reached ZOMBIEhood!



And see – only if one has one’s basic needs met -which takes money in this world- is one able to entertain such ‘wisdom’. But if we look at the history of mankind, if we look around, ‘wisdom’ has not produced a better world for all. THERE IS A PROBLEM.
The mind focuses on the differences between us and fights for a 'special place' in the universe - while the sun shines for all equally.

Where there is a problem there is a solution as well.

We as humanity are able to re-educate ourselves to start focusing on that which we all have in common - to see and recognize that we are all here on common ground, Earth, with a common interest, Life - common sense!

With the Equal Money System we propose an entire transformation of our world from the inside out, with our own hands, to once and for all stop abuse and separation, provide for All that is Here, and re-align our systems and relationships based on the value of Life.

THE VALUE OF LIFE IS LIFE

Destonians : from Back-Chat to Living-Words

From Back-Chat to the Living-Word

Living-Words implies that our thoughts, actions and deeds are one, and that one stands as an integral living being-ness that resonates throughout the universe and creates existence.

Now – we can all see what kind of existence we have created here as mankind; it is anything but kind.

We have a system that feeds off of life with Money as god, instead of a system to actually support life – all life equally. We all exist in fear of each-other as slaves to this system we have created and given permission for to run our lives.

Within as without, we run on survival-mode: fight or flee, won or lose. And while for the ‘big bosses’ this may seem like a game, for the small hungry bodies in countries hidden from the mercy of ‘god’ it is a struggle for the next breath.

Inequality the mark of the beast of this existence: Mankind. Or should we say ‘Manevil'!

Consider: An actual win-win-scenario for all is possible! The answer is Equality = the practical application of the simple math that Life equals Life; and that the value of Life is Life.

For Equality of Life, all separation must stop. 

Just like all back-chat must stop, as back-chat is the evil that brews in the ‘secret chambers’ of the ill will of man – because what is no evil, need not be kept secret.

Imagine a world where thoughts are visible. Imagine a world where emotional reactions have each their own smell. (And what tells us it isn’t so, but the human ‘incapability’ to actually see itself and its own creation!)

Who would you be if everything was known? (And who says it isn’t!)

If you believe in god – How can you live with yourself?

If you believe in no god – What are you blaming for your existence?

Destonians realize that Equality as Life means equal power – self-empowerment. No gods, no masters, no slaves – Instead: self-responsibility, self-creation, self-power as Life.

Imagine a world where there is no separation in gods, masters and slaves! A world where all parts of life are equally valuable! 

What will it take to ‘get there’? 

What will it take for such ‘paradise’/’paradigm’ to be Our Here !

Realizing that we are the building-blocks of our world, and seeing the reality of this existence as we face ourselves day-to-day through all our interactions, reactions, disputes, fears and desires, news on TV and the natural calamities that every now and then come to burst our bubbles of separation : 

we have no choice but to stand-up and stop that which is creating this creation, the world as we know it – starting within ourselves.

Through self-purification we purify our existence. We are walking a process of self-honesty, walking a self-transformation from existing as back-chat in spitefulness to becoming the living-word : 

scripting and applying a new reality for all life, as what we would like for ourselves in self-dignity.

DeLiberate

In a SYSTэM
with No Liberty
fo(R)of its PeepALL
DeLiberance
is the only way
to Doom
or
the only way of freedom

DeLiberate

‘till ALL is Liberate
and who we ARE is IkUall
AllWays One

‘till deLiveRants is
no-more necessAREy
BE CAUSE we are LIVE

Factsinating:

In the MAtricks = the word Deliberance is marked
with a ‘negative’ Charge
Thus one Fear oneself as Єvil.livЭ

One accept oneself to be Fish
in the CURRENT of the Big SEA
Then all one see is CURRENCY
As one fLaw with the F(o)l(l)ow...


Who has No deLiberance to Be IkUall
Will inevitably Drawn in the inFIN8 C U Rn’t
As the Snake CON s U Me its own Tale
Man will be his own Demice...

In an atTempt to aVoid the End

in a PreTent to Not SEE
Some will Flawed in the SEA of Knowledge
and beLIEve themselves to be the Shaikhs that EAT the small-fish
Others will drawn in their own PITy – accepting self-De-Feet
Denying the Ground Beneath their Feet...


Is there a WAY OUT?
Is the WAY OUT perhaps the WAY IN?

Is the Answer INsight...

Is the Answer IkUall...

In Self-Honest Self-Direction:

I deLIBERATEly See into Me
I deLIBERATEly define Purpose to serve ikUall Life
I deLIBERATEly Refuse to repeat Patterns
I deLIBERATEly bring me back Here when I am dOwn/Own(e)d
I deLIBERATEly Stand
I deLIBERATEly push my BoundAries
I deLIBERATEly push through Inner Resistances
I deLIBERATEly push through Inner Resystemces
I deLIBERATEly push myself out of my ComfortZone
I deLIBERATEly test myself

When I ‘follow’ something – it is deLIBERATE – to SEE what I have allowed to diriGate and DickTate me - and to take-back Self-directive power in Self-Honesty - to SEE who I really am and make a Stand – and make the MoveMEnt necessAREy to BEcome Equal to all points apparently separate from me – to be the DIRECT Cause and Effect equally ACTually

I deLIBERATEly BREATHE
I deLIBERATEly HEAR myself
I deLIBERATEly Stand as Breath HERE – to SEE through the fenOMENon, the funnyMenA – to SEE beyond the EyE that separates the I

DeLiberate Breath by Breath 'till All I Bearth Equal

 De Liberance is Here:

to Not accept or allow anything less than who I REALLY am as IkUall as All I’s of Life

De Liberance is Here:

In-Breath Will yourSelf to SEE & BE Life’s WILL – Ik U All

De Liberance is Here:

one will either Do it – or will choose to remain in the freeDoom of CONfort

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The Deception of `Equal opportunity

The System claims `equal opportunity´ when Equality is not lived in fact.

The design of ´equal opportunity´ keeps people grateful to the System, keeps people preoccupied in hoping for something more. At the same time, a Hierarchy is presented within and as the System, as a ´Higher-Key´ for the people to wish/want/desire to get access to - because they believe they have ´equal opportunity´ and that everyone can ´reach´ the ´Higher-Key´ and `ascend on the Hierarchy´.

That´s why Races were created: Those winning want other people to participate so that they, those with the ´Higher-Keys´ can maintain their positions. If no-one would play the game, their positions would be quite useless.

So everyone´s trying to make the best out of their ´equal opportunity´ - if you fail, they can say: "But you had an ´equal opportunity´!"

Hierarchy - Higher-Key - HIRE-Key

Look at those licking asses in the System: You have to HIRE the Key, there IS no ´equal opportunity´ - it´s not yours, you have to HIRE it.

This is the principle the whole Money-System is based on: Energy. So they have you dependent on an external energy-force (Money) to sustain yourself; No-one questions that, no-one considers the actual Life-force within, eternal and sound, stable.

Energy moves up and down in a Polarity-System that feeds off the Friction created from Energy. Every now and then, you are The One to win the Jackpot - but it´s all about Energy, you HIRE the Jackpot, it´s never yours, it comes not from your Life-force, not from YOU.

Same story within Religion/Spirituality.

There you have ´equal opportunity´ to ´evolve´ to an apparent ´higher state´.

It´s all about the ´State´:

The state of money, the state of the country, the state of consciousness, the state of being, the mental state, even death is a state.

Your ´equal opportunity´ is what fucks you.

Is there actual Equality in that? NO.

In Equality, you ARE all things Here - it´s not a matter of ´opportunity´ anymore.

Here´s a fascinating point revealed through simple math:

Life is Equality (Life is equal in all beings)

Life is not limited (Life has no name, no program, no form)

Equality Lived implies NO-limits

Common Sense.

EQUALITY is in the HERE, HERE is all and everything, everything is HERE, all knowledge, all dimensions, all actual ´power´ which then is useless, because what do you do with ´power´ when all things are EQUAL!

Those with ´power´ in the System claim that the System offers ´equal opportunity´ - what a Deception! They are deceiving Life, they are even deceiving themselves! In ´equal opportunity´ you are limited. Then those on the ´Higher-Key´ of the System can have all ´power´.

The ´Power of Now´ is based on ´equal opportunity´. The ´Now´ is the greatest Deception in the History of Spirituality: keeping everyone in their Bubble of self-interest, while what is Real Here as the rest of the world is simply not considered. "´Now´ I will win the Jackpot."

NOW - ONE - WON

It´s all a beLIEf.

The ´spiritual´ propagated ´Oneness´ is in Polarity: a state of Polarity where all opposites are enslaved by each-other as one, just like we are all enslaved by each-other as humanity. How ´free´ can one person be within and as this world we have allowed and accepted to be our reality!? Not very free.

The beLIEf of ONE / NOW / WON is based on Polarity and supports polarity, just like a Casino. In the Casino, you win SOMETIMES. When you win, that gives you ´happiness´. But have a look: Happiness is ´when it happens´. When it doesn´t happen - no happiness.

There is no Stability, no Equality, no Consistency, no self-Movement. Only Cycles of Energy/Money/(Un-)´Happiness´ that have you on a ´Joy´-Ride YOU pay the ticket for but don´t determine the outcome of.

If one look at ´The Secret´ and the `Law of Attraction´, one can see that it doesn´t actually ´work´ equally for everyone. It works according to the List of AlloWances/Acceptances (LAW) of each; and each one has a different list of acceptances/allowances as what they accept and allow within themselves for the sake of fitting-in to the System, serving the System instead of Life and in turn being `served´ with the opportunity to enjoy a ´more equal opportunity´: that´s why ´The Secret´ for a moment ´works´ for those that compromise Self/Life for the NOW/ONE/WON, for Money/Energy/Higher-Key - in SPITE of All that´s Here, in SPITE of that which is EQUAL in ALL - in SPITE of LIFE.

When EQUALITY is lived: Who we are and What we do is not a matter of opportunity.

Master or Slave - what was first?

no gods, no masters NO SLAVES ...did masters create the slaves or slaves created the masters? ...or is it a ´do´ instead of ´did´ lol