Self-Honesty & Self-Awareness Steps for the Elite

The Elite?

If you are reading this – you ARE the elite. I am the elite. All of us who have a certain roof over our head, a certain access to water and electricity, a certain access to money and an income that ensures everything one needs for a dignified living in this physical reality: WE are the ones that determine the evolution of the system, the evolution of life on planet earth – through everything that we do and sadly also through everything that we don’t do.

The ones in less fortunate positions such as famine, war, starvation, forced labor, are all enslaved to conditions they have no power to change, because they are cast out of the system we all daily participate in, they have no voice in this world, no vote to make their voice heard, and often no vocabulary to formulate the actual state of affairs they are being subjected to.

It is therefore up to the rest of us to find it within us to stand up for LIFE, and that includes every living thing on this existence, from the smallest to the biggest; to find it within us to realize our responsibility by the mere fact that WE RAE HERE, born into conditions that give us a relative power to move things, to voice our position, to make a stand and make sure that how we live and co-exist is practically bringing-forth a better life, a dignified life for ALL.

To find this will of life within us, self-honesty is required and practical common sense – to see who it is we are, how we came to be, and how it is that we are in fact creating this world; and to stop creating from a starting-point of fear, self-interest and separation, and instead start creating in awareness, in the realization that we exist in the context of life and that life is interdependent.

We have done already great harm to ourselves, each-other and our home planet – but this should not stop us from standing-up and stating “till here and no further”; it should not stop us from finding practical ways to stop the accepted ways of the world and transform the current system within and without into a living-expression of what is best for all – after all, what is best for all, is best for you and me.

This is obviously not going to be a quick fix, nor an easy journey. There is much re-education to be done in terms of freeing ourselves from the conditioned survival fear that keeps us existing against each other; freeing ourselves from the mind control that is being thrown at us from the moment of birth and really ask ourselves the question: what would we have liked to learn and experience as children coming into this world, how would the opportunities to explore and express ourselves look like – and what practical infrastructure would a system require to in fact provide the children with such quality of life; what will it take to change ourselves in such a way that we break the cycles of abuse and separation, that we stop history from repeating and really, truly, create a new world – for real, for ALL.

Yes - we require an entirely new system. At the same time however, we require to realize that –as with everything in existence–  it all starts with self. We are the building blocks of this world, as this world exists through and as the relationships we entertain – in the smallest of details.


Check out the series Self-Awareness Steps for the Elite – and make use of the tools offered to assist yourself toward self-honesty and a dignified existence.
Allow yourself to question self-interest and our fear-based existence, allow yourself to see yourself in a bigger context: the context of life, the context of oneness and equality as creation. 
Watch the following interview for a taste of what such a process entails:

Self-Honesty

I've been walking this process for more than four years now. Self-honesty entails the willingness to see/ recognize/ reveal the 'hidden motives' on the basis of which our beliefs, fears, desires, self-definitions are created/ adopted/ accepted. Self-honesty also entails to see the patterns we participate in (mental, emotional, behavioral) and understand/realize the cause/ beginning/ origin and effect/ outflow/ consequence - to ultimately take self-responsibility to change self in a way that no more (self-)abuse is allowed. Self-honesty is the process of revealing to myself where and how I am being self-dishonest, where and how I deceive or sabotage myself - to then investigate the self-corrective/ self-purifying practical steps required to stop - and 'transform' myself into a being I can live with. That is in the end the ultimate 'question' life confronts us with: "Can you live with yourself in the face of life, in the face of all that is here?" - "Have you stood up for yourself, have you stood up for life - What impact have you/ has your participation had on life as a whole?"

The main tools I utilize to work on points I am faced with throughout my everyday life are writing and self-forgiveness, which in few words could be described as: self-introspection, writing out the points/patterns, investigating what is 'behind' the particular thoughts/ emotions/ beliefs/ (self-)definitions, see the consequences for self/life, see what I am allowing within self/the world through my acceptances per implication, and make the choice to stop/ let-go/ forgive myself.
From here, what is required is a 'new script' which self determines in self-honesty: How do I want to 'purify'/'correct' myself in this regard? What is acceptable and what is unacceptable for life/ freedom/dignity? How do I want to live/apply the change practically? Self-honesty from here would be to direct myself towards/as self-change in the very moments where the particular pattern I worked with comes-up or gets triggered again. That is where I then 'test myself' in reality, that is where I 'prove' to myself that I am in fact taking self-responsibility, that I can in fact trust my word, that I am in fact directing myself to live as best for life, as best for all, of which i am equally part of.

Obviously this is a huge 'subject' and as I said I have been walking this 'process' for many years already. This started when I came across Desteni (I had been following a 'spiritual' path up to that point and was busy focusing on the 'positive' and suppressing/denying the 'negative' within self/the world) and that is when I started to participate on the forums and write and communicate with others that were also busy exploring life and themselves and searching for 'truth';
I started exploring the principle of equality and oneness, understanding polarity and how it works and how we trap ourselves and each-other within such system (within and without), and discussing practical solutions for self and the world so that we may finally make this world and life something that is no longer abusive/deceptive/exploiting; something that is worth living and worth leaving to our children without regret, without fear, without harm.

What is most fascinating is that, although this process started as a self-realization process for the individual, we concluded that we cannot be preoccupied with self only while the world is burning and half the population is left to starve; that we must first create the structural support and transform the system(s) of our world in a way that each living being can have a dignified life - then all are free to explore self and all have actual real choice to be and become who we truly are, and do what we really enjoy doing - without the enslavement of the current money-system that determines our choices and decides who lives and who dies.

Therefore at the moment we are focusing on bringing-forth a new equality system, while of course each one individually continues to walk the process of self-honesty, taking self-responsibility, developing self-trust, purifying ourselves and our relationships, and establishing the self-will from which emerge the freedom as we break free from the chains of 'old' and ingrained habits and patterns of this system consciousness that is based on fear, self-interest and basically war/competition/winners and losers. A win-win solution is possible for life. And that is the process of life as oneness and equality, within as without.


Check out the open forum at http://forum.desteni.org - much is shared there and people/we utilize the forum to write, share, discuss and support ourselves and each-other in self-honesty and practical common sense.

Check out the Equal Money website. The website will change in about a week's time with an interactive first page where people will be able to vote and comment on the goals and policy development thus far on the Equal Money System. There will also be an Equal Money wiki. Make sure you get involved, make sure your voice counts for what is best for all!

Check out the awakening-awareness self-support stuff at EQAFE!
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2012 Reasons for a Higher Purpose

Ever considered that you’re doing the ‘right’ thing for the WRONG reasons ???
Ever claimed you’re doing something for NO reason ???
Ever dared doing the ‘wrong’ thing for the RIGHT reasons ???
Ever realized that you’re reasoning away the actuality of reality ???

What is REASON?
Our reasons are always representing our starting-point, the beginning of a decision, a movement, a step we take.
Therefore, there is always a reason for doing something or moving toward a certain direction, even if that reason may not be in one’s conscious awareness.

Since the REASON is always the beginning, this implies that seeing, knowing and understanding the reason – the beginning, the starting-point – we are able to see and understand the end – the result, the outflow.
‘Beginning and end’ is equal to ‘cause and effect’.
What effect do we cause through who we are in every moment?
This is a reality of consequence.
Consequences are the outflows of who we are, the result we effect through the cause of our being.

Everything in this existence exists within and through relationships. Everything we do, every step has an outflow, a result, an impact – on the whole. That is how we are creating this reality, this existence, this world as we know it.
The abuser does not exist by itself – everything exists in relationships, and for that we are all responsible.
The system (as we’ve created/accepted/allowed it) creates the abuser: through the support of self-interest, competition and secrecy – constantly re-creating inequality, comparison, greed, despair. Who are the real criminals in the face of life? The one who steals food to survive or the white collar that works to maintain a system of separation in the name of profit?

The earth provides everything all, but man created a concept ‘scarcity’ and exploits what is here in the name of profit – all the while billions suffer.
The current system offers many distractions, resulting in the shifting of responsibility and blame. Such comments prove how easily people get distracted by ‘sensationalism’ and do not see the whole picture. Then one will quickly jump into conclusions about who is to blame, all the while one is accepting and giving permission for the system to exist as it does = in a way that supports/tolerates inequality and the exploitation of life.

Many people search for PURPOSE in life, and the current con system of consumerism and consumption is good at selling us a purpose you can buy into and follow, a purpose that will give us the feeling we’re ‘doing the right thing’ or ‘getting somewhere’, a feeling that we’re ‘important’, that we are ‘someone’, that we are ‘good’; all the while we are basically maintaining the world ‘as we know it’ and supporting the survival of a persona in self-interest – which is basically the system: where what we do is motivated by self-interest in the name of profit (whether profit is defined as actual money and riches or a ‘god’ and god’s grace or the ‘pursuit of happiness’ and ‘personal freedom’ – in any case we are in fact always enslaved to the whole system, and half the world suffers starvation and despair as a result of this survival system we all participate in day in day out.

When people make decisions about who they are and how they exist – whether consciously or unconsciously – they then tend to create the reasoning that ‘explains’ ‘why’ they do what they do, ‘why’ they are how they are. People reason about intellectually, in the mind, to not have to see the actual REASONS for this existence – the world as we know it – in the physical: this reality we all share.

When we however start investigating our actual reasons, the actual starting-point of everything we do, say, think, participate in and how this reality functions: we get to an understanding of ourselves and the world and what the relationships we entertain support or create or give permission for to exist here.

Every moment, every word, every deed – who we are and what we participate in – is a piece of the puzzle of the things to come. The problem within this is that we’ve been manifesting this world in ignorance, and then we claim that ignorance is ‘bliss’. We’ve been creating this world in unawareness, through our secret minds, our fears, our denials, our desires.

As a representation of the mind within, we have created without a metaphysical system – the current money system – through which we attempt to manage the actual physical reality; with atrocious results as we can see all around.

As we get to an understanding about the mechanics of this reality, and as we get to self-honesty about the REASONS of our existence, our behaviour, our decisions, our definitions of ourselves and the world: what emerges is the realization that we can free ourselves from the predetermined ‘fate’ we are born into and able to determine our ‘reasons’ in awareness; clear our starting-point, re-evaluate how we exist – re-define and re-form what we call ‘life’.

As we realize that every here moment forms the shape of the things to come, we can see that we can stop existing for purposes given to us by the system to keep the system alive while we abdicate our power and leave ourselves and this world to ‘fate’; and are able to LIVE HERE in every moment in awareness of our role in the context of the whole, which is LIFE.

What ‘Purpose’ is can be redefined: from a projected ‘feel good’-picture that serves the ego in disregard of the whole – to a practical living in self-determination of ‘who I am’ in every moment in the context of LIFE as Best for All, thus supporting and bringing forth the utmost potential for all life.

It is vital to UNDERSTAND life – and start LIVING ...instead of being literally driven by preordained and conditioned ideas about life.

Is there at all a RIGHT reason for ‘doing things’?
Looking at this question from a system perspective we see that ‘right’ and ‘wrong’ really doesn’t make much difference in the system, because what is ‘right’ for one is often ‘wrong’ for another, and within the system each one is encouraged to promote their ‘own’ beliefs, their ‘own’ truth, their ‘own’ philosophy about things. What is not seen is that in any case all of this serves the protection of one’s personal ‘pursuit of happiness’ and the ‘justification’ of the things we do in the name of self-interest.

Never is the Whole considered, never do we see all points or consider the outflows, the consequences and the practical implications our participation has for everything and everyone else – for that which we call ‘life’, for the existence we are creating /accepting /allowing on our planet.
Looking in self-honesty at this world, which is a reflection of who we are, we can definitely see that what we’re doing /accepting /allowing cannot be justified!

We, humanity, have no excuses for what we’re doing to ourselves and each-other.

From the perspective of life, there is no ‘right’ and ‘wrong’ – there is only ‘who we are’ and the consequences thereof.

As we come to an understanding of the ‘bigger picture’, as we get to the humbleness that comes with the insight of the atrocity of this existence and our individual involvement within it all, we can look at the point of ‘right reasons’ and ‘wrong reasons’ from a very simplistic, practical perspective, through which we are actually able to remove the systematic polarity definition of ‘right’ and ‘wrong’ and place the question in the context of LIFE:

Within the context of life, ‘wrong’ would be all that which is an expression of self-dishonesty.
Self-dishonesty being our self-interest, our separation from life that based in the consciousness of fear and greed, comparison, jealousy, competition, fear of loss. In self-dishonesty we realize ourselves as systematic robots that function as conditioned happiness machines programmed to seek the jackpot whatever it takes while we are successfully distracted with bright shiny things to not see the whole picture and the role each one is actually playing within the Whole; to not see ourselves as creators and this existence as our creation – our responsibility.

Within the context of life, ‘right’ would be that which is an expression of self-honesty.
Self-honesty being the point where we see things for what they really are and face ourselves and everything we have created /accepted /allowed /given permission for to exist within ourselves and our world; realizing ourselves as life, as equal creations of the substance we all come from, the substance we all return to, and as creators of this existence on this one planet we all share. It is simple common sense that Best for All would be to live and apply our equality as life in the utmost potential and make it available to all equally in all ways; making sure that the systems we create to manage our ‘time’ between life and death – both on the small scale (our character, our relationships, our interactions in every moment) and on the bigger scale (our systems of education, administration, distribution of resources) – support ALL LIFE EQUALLY.

SELF-HONESTY is the ‘path’ – the Living Self Choice – of stopping the limitations we have accepted and allowed within and about ourselves and our world; removing the systematic controls that have us trapped in a bipolar consciousness that keeps history repeating; transforming the equations of inequality and enslavement into common sense solutions of dignity and self-empowerment in equality – so that we may be able to re-create ourselves and our existence, this world, in a way that support ourselves and each-other as LIFE.

"The Secret" that isn´t one - and yet it is...

"Secret 1": Who is `They´?

HOW do We create `them´?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aj6rxxXhVSI

"Secret 2": Why you don´t know

what happens after DEATH

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nd11d2i0Sk4

"Secret 3": TruthSeekers? SuperHeros? -The deLIGHTful Truth...

HOW MUCH LONGER ARE WE GONNA WAIT FOR OURSELVES?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2WCigGFUb44

Labels, Medicine & Pharmaceutics VS. MANKIND?

LabelSlavesLabels...

...`bipolar´, `schizophrenic´, `ADHD´, `manic´, `depressive´, `psychotic´, `hysteric´, `borderline´, `multiple personality´= all are Aspects that exist within every human being, more or less, due to Separation (i.e. the Split of Self for the sake of Survival in this Reality), Suppressions, Denial, Lack of actual Support and real Communication within the basic System-unit: the Family.

Those that are exposed to a reactive environment or traumatic experiences that will `trigger´ the manifestation of a particular aspect - are labeled, categorized, marginalized.

Interesting the greek word Kategoria in the word Categorization = Judgment, Blame.

No wonder that `labeled´ individuals will get the message that `something is wrong with them´ and will inevitably either start blaming & judging themselves, or will go into anger & rebellion and will in both cases end-up in a never-ending inner struggle.

And look how this is the case for almost Everyone!

There is something wrong with this World!

The whole World is `bipolar´ - "BUY POLARity - it is for SALE - SAIL AWAY - Don´t be HERE, so that we can `feed´ you until you are fed-up and give-up - we even make the right PILL(ow)S for you! - Sleep, Sheep, Sleep - Accept, Accept, Obey, Buy, Buy-Buy..."

The borderline of our Minds is where we keep ourselves apparently `Safe´ while we `Play´ until we become Prey to the bipolar movements of the Mind:

up and down

up and down

up and down

round and round

right! wrong!

no, right!

no, wrong!

"who am I, doc?"

Psychiatry/Psychology is `allowed´ to define `conditions´ and `label´ individuals - and this is done in a away that will make a person believe that: "You are not able to take Self-Responsibility, so - there, I´ll give you a Reason not-to, let´s put you `outside the margin´, you are `special´, you are EXcused - so cute, let´s EXcute you for life!"

All for Money...

Money-->NoMe-->Eco-no-Me

What is not seen, is that the `birth´ of a `condition´ through Labeling supports the manifestation of the `condition´ in-fact, and has the interesting side-effect that it opens the door for further `conditions´ / further Labeling.

In studying Viruses, it is seen that a Virus will develop and `evolve´ according to the vaccine/medicine. The Virus is always a step ahead.

An interesting question would be: What comes first - the Virus or the Medicine?

MeDiCine-->MeDieSin-->MeDieSoon

Pharmaceutics-->Pharma is Ace and U are Ticks

Man´s ACCEPTANCES, i.e. giving-away Self-Responsibility and placing Trust into `specialized´ forces and systematic treatments, and the fact that the System tricks Man into accepting & beLIEving his own powerlessness & defeat = implies that a real Change must come from Man, on individual-level, through realizing Self-Responsibility and looking at the Consequences of his Acceptances and Allowances to understand his own Creation as himself.

It is Who we are that creates this Reality.

Time to Stop. And Breathe.

Looking at our accepted `powerlessness´ - Man´s Self-Defeat... How did we come to `understand´ i.e. define `power´ only in Separation - only in relation to another point (other people, the system etc)?

In accepting this, we will attempt to `prove´ our `power´ through constant competition and Inner struggle - instead of realizing Self-Power Here as Who we are in every Breath. The Self-Power to remain Here as Breath no matter what I am facing.

The Self-Power to not-react, and to instead direct myself in CommonSense as Equal to another or a situation.

The Self-Power to not have to `have the last word´.

The Self-Power to not have to `win´.

The Self-Power to not have to `prove myself to others´.

The Self-Power to `know thy self´.

Birth-->Brith-->Breath ....Breathe-in

dEATH --> brEATH ....Breathe-out

What is happening in-between...?

An interesting fact:

In our Sleep, we `lose´ Awareness, we `lose´ Self-Direction, i.e. the Dream `happens to us´. We are not aware of our Breath, we are not breathing - The body-System is breathing for us, automatically.

Is Sleep a Simulation of Death?

It is said that: As long as one is not awake and directive in the Dream - one is actually asleep when `awake´.

Observe how, even in the `wake´-state, we do not Breathe in Awareness. We are busy in our Mind. We are busy with Emotions. We are busy calculating `who we are´ in each particular situation we face. We play the game by the name.

Observe how each inner Reaction (anger, fear, anxiety, hate, being `in-love´, desire etc.) always `come´ with particular breath-Patterns. Reactions are automatic, they are conditioned. So has become our Breath - automatic.

The Body breathes as a Automated System.

Between the first In-breath and the last Out-breath: a whole life goes-by where we allow a System to take-over and breathe for us. Because `this is how it is´. Because `everybody does it´. Because this is `the way´. The way of the World...

We are not keeping ourselves Alive, we are not breathing Life, we are not breathing Ourselves. A System is keeping us alive ( ...considering our own self-abusive attitude towards the body, one wonders why it even breathes for us).

What happens if we Stop the Systematic Automation of breath?

We have proven that, if one Stop and Breathe when a Reaction come-up, one can direct oneself: No I will not follow a reaction. I am Here, I breathe.

We have proven that, if one is stable as Breath in Awareness Here - one is able to Stop the `effect´ of any common Drug: in ONE Breath.

Breath is HERE. If I am here as Breath in every Breath - I am HERE.

What does that imply?

What does it imply about Breath?

What does it imply about Awareness as Breath?

What does it imply about Who we are?

What does it imply about the Mind?

What does it imply about Self-Direction?

What does it imply about Self-Power?

What does it imply about Self-Realization?

What does it imply about Who we really Are?

What does it imply that we All actually breathe the same Breath?

What does it imply about Equality and Oneness of Life?

What does it imply about CommonSense and the Equality of Life that is `missing´ in-fact?

What does Self-Realization as Breath imply?

Is perhaps the Breath, as the Common Equal Point we All share the Key to Self-Reaization as Life? - the Realization that SELF = LIFE = EQUAL = ALL - where `power´ as we know it can no-longer exist

Is perhaps the Breath, as the actual physical `representation´ of Systematic Polarity (in-out, in-out, in-out) the Key to stand Equal to the Nature of Polarity - and Transcend Polarity?

Is perhaps the Breath, as the actual physical `representation´ of the polarity of `life&death´ the Key to stand Equal to `life´(the System) and Equal to Death - and Transcend Death?

Is perhaps the Breath the Key to Transcend `Time´?

Is perhaps the Breath our Only point of what is Real, Actual Here?

Is perhaps the Breath the Key to Stop the System from within and bEarth ourselves as Life?

Is perhaps Who we Really Are to be found in Breath?

Each-one can only find-out for oneself.

Each-one will have to find-out for oneself.

A time come where each-one will have to STAND in the midst of self-created Hell.

A time come where each-one FACE oneself and what has been accepted and allowed.

A time come where each-one will have to HEAL oneself. Breath Here will be all we have.

HERE --> HEAL

BREATH--> bEARTH

STOP the GAME