Don’t Give In, Don’t Give Up. Give LIFE.

it's extensive how we define ourselves and our expression based on our perception of impressions through others, interpreting reality through systematic filters instead of LIVING direct, in directive authority as equals of life

currently no expression exists

only reaction

we are slaves to our own consciousness, our own value judgments, our own search for self, all the while we are HERE

what does that realization imply?

the solution is here

the solution would be direct living

Self-Forgiveness is the letting go of the past/judgments/fears, removing the veils, and giving self the permission to LIVE

the LIVING must be equally applied as the Self-Forgiveness

this is a point all is facing

first we walk/start with the mind process of seeing, realizing and understanding our creation

then suddenly we notice, oh shit, we ARE it, it's about changing ourselves

it’s about putting the theory into application, and living the change, living our realizations

all resistance and all fear, all want/need/desire:

is the consciousness that we've become that fears losing itself, fears losing it's 'feeding ground' which has been our physical bodies and this physical world

it is the consciousness that wants to have it “my way” based on self-interest and the concepts of ‘personal happiness’ the systems serves us with, conditioned through family, called ‘love’ when it’s only patterns of ‘reward’ and ‘punishment’ creating a world of abuse where profit/self-interest is placed before the interest of LIFE

so the question is:

will we dare to occupy our body as beings of life, and walk/participate in life in self-responsibility, self-dignity and respect, as directive authority in equality and oneness –

or will we remain as consciousness, a fabricated entity occupying a body for its self-interest

this is the question everyone and everything is faced with as the final decision in this existence

"...Understand that here is another way to look at Earth – Earth is the opportunity for the Individualization as Life and therefore a reality is created within which one exist within both life and illusion, to see who you are and what you can be trust with. If you can only be trusted with the illusion = then you will not continue after this – If you can be trusted with life = you will be welcomed home! But you don’t get that ‘for free,’ you don’t get that if you don’t understand how it works – because if you don’t understand how it works, you will abuse others - it’s exactly what happens here on Earth and therefore, it was necessary, and therefore not everyone is going to enter Life – but it would be nice if everyone could, yet, it depends on each one individually, it is your absolute own alone journey, you have to prove that you are worthy of life, that you understand the total creation of everything in fact, and yes it is possible and it is rather simplistic and if you understand it, you will no longer abuse it."

"...That is the principles of the Quanta Moving – they move together. So you change = the world change, why don’t the world change is because You don’t change – anyone that claim that they have changed it is Not True.
Everyone will have to Change if the world is to change – and the world will go to the state that is necessary to force this. Slowly but surely, and before you know it, it may be too late and you won’t be ready and it is okay if you’re not ready, because that is your decision. And that decision, that reality, the ‘Who I Am’ decides everything, that is the nature of this existence, there is No Forgiveness but SELF Forgiveness, there is no Honesty but Self Honesty, there is nothing else but What is Best for All – Best For All is Not Debatable, because it is measurable, it is functional, it is mathematical and it is scientific, in which one can work out the simplicity of the relationships between every form that is here and what would be the best for it.
If one truly care about, then you understand what Real Love is all about, and then you would understand that participating in a system as it exist now is abusive. It is necessary that we start a new system, one where we are in fact responsible and accountable.” 

- Bernard Poolman in Consciousness is a System of Government

to become life, which we do not yet know/realize what it is other than the basic common sense that life must be Best for All,

we must be willing to and will ourselves to let go of the consciousness/knowledge/past/judgments/fears/desires etc. that we've become in patterns of polarity, where for some to ‘have’ others have nothing, and for some to ‘win’ the majority must ‘lose’ –

which is what we see in the world yet it is the same system-principle based on which every individual mind consciousness functions: self-interest.

"...This made it very clear, that Joy in itself, as it is Experienced by People in their Systematic existence of the Mind, is Actually ‘Happiness and Achievement’, because it is Never in the Context of Equality as Life, but rather in the Context of Self-Interested Fulfilment where the One claiming ‘Joy’ has Never Ever Connected with ANY other Part of Life in ANY WAY Whatsoever, but are Only Functioning at the level of Senses, trying to make Sense of a Senseless Existence of Chasing the Next Moment of Mistaken Joy in the Fulfilling of an All-Consuming Parasitic Existence."

- Bernard Poolman in one of the latest posts in his Journey To Life blog 

could there be any ‘higher purpose’ to achieve than LIFE - than freedom and dignity for all in a world without fear, without abuse?

as we walk this process of self-honesty self-forgiveness, exorcising the habits that inhabit us and letting go of the consciousness patterns that bind us, there's a moment / moments of 'vacuum' where the past is no longer but the new is not yet lived into creation

that's where the ‘window of opportunity’ is HERE for self to move and create the NEW, otherwise the old comes in again automatically

this is where breath assists, slowing down to real-time, walking breath by breath

realizing and acknowledging that this process takes time, as it took time for us to fabricate what is here now;

thus –

we gotta walk in patience, yet live self-commitment – don’t give up

don't give in to the patterns of the past

we gotta move ourselves out of the separate mind-bubbles of consciousness as self-interest - and into Life and Living in the interest of LIFE, as who we all really are 

we gotta move self slowly but surely, to let go of a past of separation and abuse and form a new existence of oneness and equality as LIFE

for further context to this blog post please read:

HERE & NOW - Changing Our Here into a Home for Life
 
The Power of Now - It's got you by the Balls

Impressed Expressions of Consciousness

Input-Output, Impressed Expression & History Repeating - Where is Real Life Expression?

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Self-Realization & Self-Made Polarity Experiences

Lately I was writing about my experience with people and groups of people throughout my life - and how I ended-up isolating myself and existing in judgment, which was in essence only reflecting my own self-judgment and mental polarity creations -




See the blog here: http://bellalive.multiply.com/journal/item/73/Relationships_as_Limitation_Bubbles_Fear_as_Self-Abuse


What is fascinating is that our 'experiences' are 'merely' the result of the equated definitions, conclusions and beliefs we accept throughout our lives: which makes it all but a program which, once realized, can be redefined in self-responsibility and self-respect –
thus changing our patterns of participation in this world in a way that will bring forth dignity for life.

Looking at my experience of how I perceived people and how I experienced being perceived by others, I see that one can in self-honesty look into and investigate what 'expectations' are connected to such experiences, meaning -
what does one expect people to think, how does one expect people to react to who and how one is, what does one fear as a reaction/feedback from others, what does one desire as a reaction/feedback from others.

Writing about this, one will see that one’s expectations emerge from one’s own self-created and/or accepted definitions of oneself, be it self-judgment and 'negative'-charged ideas (which would reflect that which one fears as feedback from others) or 'positive'-charged ideas about oneself (which would reflect that which one desires as feedback/'validation' from others).

So, this shows that what we think people think about us or what we perceive people experience toward us = is actually in fact our own mind. It is showing us what we ourselves have defined, created, accepted about ourselves - our fears and desires: both are polarity points that indicate self-separation, from the perspective that
- the 'negative' points one fears being seen/perceived as: are points that one has judged of/about oneself and thus separated from oneself, instead of transcending the points within and as self-equality
- the 'positive' points one desires as 'feedback', 'validation' or 'gift' from others: are points that one has not yet accepted within oneself as oneself but has separated oneself from, thinking and believing one needs to 'gain' or 'attain' them in order to be 'more'/'better'/'higher'.

Such points/ideas of 'more'/'better'/'higher' are showing us that we've actually defined self as the opposite-polarity ('less'/'worse' etc -the 'negative') and we're therefore now seeking and desiring the 'positive'.
So here we can see the trap of polarity within and as our mental 'values' - the things we place value on, in separation from ourselves as life.

So, in fact, until we start seeing and realizing what we (each one of us) have created as one's mind, what others will reflect to us will be our own ideas, fears and desires – and therefore looking at others and the feedback we get from others: we are basically seeing ourselves.

And THAT is where one can start with investigating the mind-polarities that exist within oneself as ideas, images, value-judgments etc, to start purifying one's (self-)definitions, removing the polarity, freeing oneself from the trap, and working towards a point of self-equality and oneness as life -

where the value is self here as life in the context of practical considerations from the starting-point of self-support as actual living, to no longer be subject to mental images, definitions and ideas about self and the world.



SELF-REAL-I-ZATION:
We are what we make real as ourselves -

and thus, self-real-I-zation is a space-time process as we dis-cover ourselves. Man Know Thyself - a process in time which entails several steps:

-seeing and recognizing what it is we have made real as ourselves and our self-experience in this world

-seeing and recognizing what the reality of our experience / what the participation in our patterns perpetuate in this world in the greater scheme

-making a decision as to whether or not such creation is worthy of life, whether or not what we've made real as ourselves in fact supports us as life

-forgiving our creation as ourselves and taking the responsibility to transform the equations of our creation, to stop the patterns of abuse and inequality/polarity and align our practical-living-participation to what's best for all/life, which is also what's best for us individually

-envisioning the practical correction- and transformation-steps required to make ourselves real as self-willed equals of life, as dignified individuals and responsible creators

-making ourselves real by walking that solution/correction/purification into beingness:
and through this we are bringing forth the transformation of our creation as humanity toward what is best for all as life in equality and oneness

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GOOD & EVIL are ONE | Proof that you Can't Trust the Positive Feeling

We are trapped in a oneness of polarity, both within ourselves as the mind consciousness we’ve been cultivating as humanity over generations as well as in the outer world as the world systems we’ve been developing, accepting and allowing – all in the name of profit.

Profit itself is a polarity construct. For some to have profit, others must have loss.
Is it really so difficult to consider that there is another way?
Or is man so brainwashed with fear that only self-interest prevails at the cost of life itself?


Take the example of a rapist or any psychopath / sociopath for that matter (watch some episodes of Criminal Minds to get a real good idea on the psychology of a criminal profile.) The crime produces a positive experience within the criminal. But to ‘get there’, a negative act was necessary, for whatever reasons: to justify for an experience of lack or injustice the criminal experience within themselves, to take revenge or to balance-out an inferiority complex etc.

The motivation is the seeking /the desire /the pursuit of for instance revenge, justice, power. The idea of achieving that goal and getting that satisfaction is the positive charge that feeds the criminal mind. And the negative action as for instance rape, murder, bullying or any kind of abuse is the starting-point for the creation of the ‘positive’.


Or take the example of abusers that try and control you with fear, whereby they get a ‘positive’ boost from being able to abuse and give you a ‘negative’ experience, which makes them feel ‘more’, ‘stronger’, ‘powerful’. Isn’t this evidence that the positive feeling cannot be trusted?

Fascinatingly enough, the abuser, the bully will often use the same label to induce fear in another that was used by others to frighten them when they were kids for instance. So if someone calls you a faggot or a prick or fat-ass, you can be sure the word thy use is something that either has ‘hurt’ them (=their ego) before or a word they fear, or if someone was fat and was bullied about it and now they’ve lost the extra pounds, it could be they are gaining satisfaction as ‘positive’ charge through hitting you with the ‘negative’, in this case the label ‘fat-ass’.
So here the ‘negative’ action of calling you ‘fat-ass’ is creating the ‘positive’ feeling of satisfaction they’re getting through the comparison they draw in the mind. Now this may be an ‘innocent’ example, however the mechanics of how this works is the same in all cases of abuse and separation.

“The reason why the negative is so powerful, is that the negative is the creator of the positive. The positive is the charge and the negative is the action/starting-point of creation.”

So –
Let’s now look at this from the other side of the polarity more in depth. Let’s take the ‘positive’ example of a lightworker, a positive-thinker or a spiritual person. The creation of a lightworker, a positive-thinker or a spiritual person as a ‘positive’ point has its roots in the perception of for instance this world as ‘negative’.
The lightworker, the positive-thinker or the spiritual person did not look at this world and see it for what it is to understand why things are how they are and how everything within that functions. The lightworker, the positive-thinker or the spiritual person looked at the world and had a ‘negative’ judgment about it, which to deny / suppress / ignore one then uses concepts of ‘light and love’, ‘positive thinking’ or ‘spirituality’ to feel better about oneself, when in fact these ‘methods’ do not have any impact on the world as such, or even any impact really on the person itself other than perhaps making the person comfortably numb for a moment, until reality bashes in.

“See - in spite of being positive - one negative point will destroy all the positive effort.”

It's time to GET REAL – only so will we be able to bring forth REAL SOLUTIONS

Check out the following Freedom Blogs:

Light, Love and Harmony

Is Love something you can Touch

Spirituality and Responsibility

Lifting the Veil to See the true spiritual path



Some related V-logs I made:

“We are a world created through failure - the failure to actually CARE FOR LIFE. We will pay for it, but that must not detract us from creating what is best for all.”

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Quotes used in this blog are by Bernard Poolman

2012 Reasons for a Higher Purpose

Ever considered that you’re doing the ‘right’ thing for the WRONG reasons ???
Ever claimed you’re doing something for NO reason ???
Ever dared doing the ‘wrong’ thing for the RIGHT reasons ???
Ever realized that you’re reasoning away the actuality of reality ???

What is REASON?
Our reasons are always representing our starting-point, the beginning of a decision, a movement, a step we take.
Therefore, there is always a reason for doing something or moving toward a certain direction, even if that reason may not be in one’s conscious awareness.

Since the REASON is always the beginning, this implies that seeing, knowing and understanding the reason – the beginning, the starting-point – we are able to see and understand the end – the result, the outflow.
‘Beginning and end’ is equal to ‘cause and effect’.
What effect do we cause through who we are in every moment?
This is a reality of consequence.
Consequences are the outflows of who we are, the result we effect through the cause of our being.

Everything in this existence exists within and through relationships. Everything we do, every step has an outflow, a result, an impact – on the whole. That is how we are creating this reality, this existence, this world as we know it.
The abuser does not exist by itself – everything exists in relationships, and for that we are all responsible.
The system (as we’ve created/accepted/allowed it) creates the abuser: through the support of self-interest, competition and secrecy – constantly re-creating inequality, comparison, greed, despair. Who are the real criminals in the face of life? The one who steals food to survive or the white collar that works to maintain a system of separation in the name of profit?

The earth provides everything all, but man created a concept ‘scarcity’ and exploits what is here in the name of profit – all the while billions suffer.
The current system offers many distractions, resulting in the shifting of responsibility and blame. Such comments prove how easily people get distracted by ‘sensationalism’ and do not see the whole picture. Then one will quickly jump into conclusions about who is to blame, all the while one is accepting and giving permission for the system to exist as it does = in a way that supports/tolerates inequality and the exploitation of life.

Many people search for PURPOSE in life, and the current con system of consumerism and consumption is good at selling us a purpose you can buy into and follow, a purpose that will give us the feeling we’re ‘doing the right thing’ or ‘getting somewhere’, a feeling that we’re ‘important’, that we are ‘someone’, that we are ‘good’; all the while we are basically maintaining the world ‘as we know it’ and supporting the survival of a persona in self-interest – which is basically the system: where what we do is motivated by self-interest in the name of profit (whether profit is defined as actual money and riches or a ‘god’ and god’s grace or the ‘pursuit of happiness’ and ‘personal freedom’ – in any case we are in fact always enslaved to the whole system, and half the world suffers starvation and despair as a result of this survival system we all participate in day in day out.

When people make decisions about who they are and how they exist – whether consciously or unconsciously – they then tend to create the reasoning that ‘explains’ ‘why’ they do what they do, ‘why’ they are how they are. People reason about intellectually, in the mind, to not have to see the actual REASONS for this existence – the world as we know it – in the physical: this reality we all share.

When we however start investigating our actual reasons, the actual starting-point of everything we do, say, think, participate in and how this reality functions: we get to an understanding of ourselves and the world and what the relationships we entertain support or create or give permission for to exist here.

Every moment, every word, every deed – who we are and what we participate in – is a piece of the puzzle of the things to come. The problem within this is that we’ve been manifesting this world in ignorance, and then we claim that ignorance is ‘bliss’. We’ve been creating this world in unawareness, through our secret minds, our fears, our denials, our desires.

As a representation of the mind within, we have created without a metaphysical system – the current money system – through which we attempt to manage the actual physical reality; with atrocious results as we can see all around.

As we get to an understanding about the mechanics of this reality, and as we get to self-honesty about the REASONS of our existence, our behaviour, our decisions, our definitions of ourselves and the world: what emerges is the realization that we can free ourselves from the predetermined ‘fate’ we are born into and able to determine our ‘reasons’ in awareness; clear our starting-point, re-evaluate how we exist – re-define and re-form what we call ‘life’.

As we realize that every here moment forms the shape of the things to come, we can see that we can stop existing for purposes given to us by the system to keep the system alive while we abdicate our power and leave ourselves and this world to ‘fate’; and are able to LIVE HERE in every moment in awareness of our role in the context of the whole, which is LIFE.

What ‘Purpose’ is can be redefined: from a projected ‘feel good’-picture that serves the ego in disregard of the whole – to a practical living in self-determination of ‘who I am’ in every moment in the context of LIFE as Best for All, thus supporting and bringing forth the utmost potential for all life.

It is vital to UNDERSTAND life – and start LIVING ...instead of being literally driven by preordained and conditioned ideas about life.

Is there at all a RIGHT reason for ‘doing things’?
Looking at this question from a system perspective we see that ‘right’ and ‘wrong’ really doesn’t make much difference in the system, because what is ‘right’ for one is often ‘wrong’ for another, and within the system each one is encouraged to promote their ‘own’ beliefs, their ‘own’ truth, their ‘own’ philosophy about things. What is not seen is that in any case all of this serves the protection of one’s personal ‘pursuit of happiness’ and the ‘justification’ of the things we do in the name of self-interest.

Never is the Whole considered, never do we see all points or consider the outflows, the consequences and the practical implications our participation has for everything and everyone else – for that which we call ‘life’, for the existence we are creating /accepting /allowing on our planet.
Looking in self-honesty at this world, which is a reflection of who we are, we can definitely see that what we’re doing /accepting /allowing cannot be justified!

We, humanity, have no excuses for what we’re doing to ourselves and each-other.

From the perspective of life, there is no ‘right’ and ‘wrong’ – there is only ‘who we are’ and the consequences thereof.

As we come to an understanding of the ‘bigger picture’, as we get to the humbleness that comes with the insight of the atrocity of this existence and our individual involvement within it all, we can look at the point of ‘right reasons’ and ‘wrong reasons’ from a very simplistic, practical perspective, through which we are actually able to remove the systematic polarity definition of ‘right’ and ‘wrong’ and place the question in the context of LIFE:

Within the context of life, ‘wrong’ would be all that which is an expression of self-dishonesty.
Self-dishonesty being our self-interest, our separation from life that based in the consciousness of fear and greed, comparison, jealousy, competition, fear of loss. In self-dishonesty we realize ourselves as systematic robots that function as conditioned happiness machines programmed to seek the jackpot whatever it takes while we are successfully distracted with bright shiny things to not see the whole picture and the role each one is actually playing within the Whole; to not see ourselves as creators and this existence as our creation – our responsibility.

Within the context of life, ‘right’ would be that which is an expression of self-honesty.
Self-honesty being the point where we see things for what they really are and face ourselves and everything we have created /accepted /allowed /given permission for to exist within ourselves and our world; realizing ourselves as life, as equal creations of the substance we all come from, the substance we all return to, and as creators of this existence on this one planet we all share. It is simple common sense that Best for All would be to live and apply our equality as life in the utmost potential and make it available to all equally in all ways; making sure that the systems we create to manage our ‘time’ between life and death – both on the small scale (our character, our relationships, our interactions in every moment) and on the bigger scale (our systems of education, administration, distribution of resources) – support ALL LIFE EQUALLY.

SELF-HONESTY is the ‘path’ – the Living Self Choice – of stopping the limitations we have accepted and allowed within and about ourselves and our world; removing the systematic controls that have us trapped in a bipolar consciousness that keeps history repeating; transforming the equations of inequality and enslavement into common sense solutions of dignity and self-empowerment in equality – so that we may be able to re-create ourselves and our existence, this world, in a way that support ourselves and each-other as LIFE.

2012 DNA Activation - Sensational Promises for Delusional Minds

Art by Matti Freeman: http://youtube.com/mattifreeman1 http://www.matterfreeman.com/

While many new age 'schools' and gurus promise full DNA activation, has anyone wondered what full DNA activation would practically imply?

People literally 'look forward' to things like that in the hope and desire that they'll bring them salvation and power, but within that they never consider the points of consequence and responsibility.

And while DNA activation is sold like a 'miraculous' savior pill, imagine this rather rational perspective:

Full DNA activation as in full awareness of all genetic information of all forefathers, their issues, their challenges, their points to be transcended. Full DNA activation as in bringing all subconscious and unconscious mind layers of self to the conscious presence here equal and one, to be faced, dealt with, directed.

Are you ready?

Responsibility is Key to Self-Empowerment - Power as Life. 


Stop the delusional mind ideas of power that we are brainwashed with, Stop buying into sensationalism and believing in promises, and discover actual self power as life within equality and oneness in this physical universe HERE.



Watch my Vlog on DNA Activation, Self Delusion and How we are blinded by the 'Light':

Watch out for the Freedom Blogs released by people standing-up all over the world; people waking up to the actuality of reality; people peeling off the veils of illusion that has been keeping us preoccupied, consumed, possessed, entrapped within a system of power-games, war, lies; people refusing to continue accepting and allowing an existence of separation, abuse and exploitation; people that are working on THE END of separation, THE END of abuse, THE END of exploitation. 

Check out the freedom movement at desteni.org and equalmoney.org and find the Freedom Blogs and further self-perfection support at the EQAFE:
Freedom Blogs -The birth of Practivism- Volume 1
Freedom Blogs -The Birth of Practivism -Volume 2 
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Check out the History of Desteni to see how it all came to be to how walk today as a group that is standing-up for life, as humanity in oneness and equality. 


2012 – Meet the Destonians and read/listen to the revelations, realizations and discussions shared by all of us throughout the various social media platforms.
Get Informed, Get Involved. 


Let the year 2012 be the beginning of the end of your own personal illusions. Learn how to debunk your own delusions with practical tools of self-support.


Let the year 2012 be the beginning of a new reality for life where WE as LIFE are the directive principle that determines the world we want to live in. 
Let’s get together and create a new reality for humanity collectively and individually – a reality that will support life in all ways, as we start to support ourselves and each-other in dignity and respect.

2012 Sex Evolution & Sexual Revolution

The world is established and formed through who we are and how we co-exist in our relationships within it. Thus, it is relationships / agreements / partnerships that will build the foundation for a new world.
A new living-reality of relationships must be established through communication, transparency and agreement, to transcend the patterns of dependency, separation, secrecy and manipulation and thus dishonesty and deception, and to transform relationships into agreements of life that support self in learning to live and co-exist in self-honesty and mutual respect. This will purify existence from the inside out and dignify life into a living process of self-exploration, growth and expression.

We can see that Sex plays a major role in the current system, both from the world-perspective in terms of capitalism, consumerism, abuse, exploitation and the consciousness of buy and sell, the consciousness of polarity, of addiction, of abuse; as well as from the perspective of the individual, wherein sex is/has been a point of secrecy, power-games, competition, manipulation, obsession, generally the diminishment and exploitation of life as ourselves due to the fake ‘values’ we adopt and ‘desires’ based on the ‘education’ we are brainwashed with through media, parents, peers/school, pornography – while we’ve lost all self-respect as a species and have difficulty accepting and embracing/supporting ourselves and thus seek for that approval in separation from ourselves.

Our relationships are based on the impressions we’ve gathered throughout our first relationships in life, beginning with our parents. It is vital to free ourselves from patterns and take self-responsibility in transforming the accepted ‘human nature’ into something that is worthy of life on this planet.
Self-acceptance, self-trust, self-honesty, self-respect – these are values that assist in establishing relationships of trust, respect, honesty, transparency and strength.

Sex in this world has become a point that is, in one way or another, an `issue´ for human beings. We can see this in the taboo-nature of Sex, as well as in the secrecy around it.
We seem to have lost our innocence in that regard, and one can ask the question What has become of uncomplicated, direct and transparent physical communication between human beings. Why has Sex become what Sex has become – and what is it exactly that Sex represents and facilitates, apart from the known mating and reproduction functions we are all aware of?

Sex has become a system through which we – consciously or unconsciously – attempt to get validation, approval or `worth´, and equally a system through which we even seek revenge, vengeance or `justice´. We tend to not see these mechanics within ourselves, yet it is clearly seen within society and the depiction of sexual socialization in movies and other arts. We can see this in the evolution of pornography as well as in the human trafficking and sex-slavery that is going in this world, based on and functioning through the very value-system of this existence, of this world consciousness:
a polarity-system manifested as and seen within the current money-system and how it exists within an imposed polarity and a proclaimed scarcity, whereby worth/value is placed in separation from life in accessories of `beauty´, `perfection´, `youth´ and `power´.

Mankind has devalued as life to such an extent, that value is more and more sought-after within external stimuli, external power-sources and accessories of `power´ – because we have completely given up on and abdicated our value as life and each-other´s value as life; otherwise we would not be abusing and exploiting life as ourselves, nor would we be accepting and allowing the current system to continue, which is a system of consumerism, consumption and cons that in the end it consumes us to such an extent that nothing but a weak spark of life remains.

We all are able to see this, as demonstrated, yet we tend to see it in `others´ and `out there´ in the world, and we can spend hours gossiping about these things or moaning and complaining about how the world is turning into an ugly place, without ever looking at how we individually contribute to the existence of the sex-system and all the constructs, industries and markets behind it.

At Desteni we do exactly that, with any and all systems and manifestations or `problems´ of this world. We take the point back to self and have a look at how the `small´ dimension of individual application and participation accumulates into implicit tolerance for the unacceptable – the abuse and exploitation that is happening and is allowed to continue in this world at all levels.

SET LIFE FREE!

Facing reality, facing self – we realize that it is both within and without, both above as below, that the revolution, an actual evolution must happen, and it can only be real and substantial if it is self-willed, self-directed, established through transparency, communication, agreement.

We require a new awareness of/as life that will bring forth a new system based in equality and oneness as the value of life that will slowly but surely transform the money-system/world-system and give every being born into this world the actual opportunity –for all equally – to explore and discover themselves and the planet, the universe.

That is what we are busy with at Desteni and we see that:
on the smaller scale, it is every individual that is undergoing a process of self-realization, which is unfolding either in denial and suppression and thus through rather traumatic events that will wake a person wake-up to reality; or through self-directive participation/application in life within self-honesty and self-responsibility.


Who are we / who am I, individually, within Sex? What are the relationship-constructs that manifest and perpetuate the power-games and mind-delusions which in turn feed the world-system of consumerism and maintain the world as we know it? What are the seemingly small acceptances we compromise ourselves to within everyday-participation, which in turn allow the `show´ to go on and everybody including ourselves to keep their make-up on and pretend that everything is okay?

At Desteni we walk in awareness the process of self-honesty and self-purification/self-perfection in the context of creating a new world in self-responsibility – to end all abuse and stop the deception of energy that is manifested as the money-system of this world based on ‘educated’ ideas of ‘power’ and ‘beauty’. A process of dignifying life as ourselves and establishing a co-existence that is worthy as life.



“What is SEX” is a series that discusses Sex and the manifestation of Sex in a holistic context, giving perspectives from the smaller (the atom, DNA, organs and functions of the human physical body in its multidimensionality) to the bigger (history of the sex system, consciousness and energy, relationships and mind-control, the unified consciousness field, history of mankind and the universe...)

Here is an overview / intro video interview you can watch:

The  “What is SEX”  series:
What is Sex? - Introduction (Part 1-6)
What is Sex - Part 7
What is Sex - Part 8
What is Sex - Part 9
What is Sex - Part 10
What is Sex - Introducing the Relationship-System - Part 11
What is Sex - The Primary and Sub Relationship-Systems of Mind and Sex - Part 12
What is Sex - Relationship Profiling - Part 13
What is Sex - How we create Relationship Profiles - Part 14

There are more series and cool stuff to be discovered at the EQAFE.
Check out the ART by Desteni Artists at http://desteniartists.blogspot.com and Investigate the research, application and solutions shared at http://Desteni.org and http://EqualMoney.org

SET LIFE FREE!

2012 Happiness in Life

There have been throughout the history of mankind many paths to ‘happiness’ –
yet none of such paths has actually considered that we cannot create happiness through denial and suppression, we cannot create happiness without understanding how we’ve created / contributed to the unhappiness that exists within and without.
Furthermore, such paths to happiness have always been ‘individualized’, without regard or consideration for the happiness of the whole; without considering that no one can ever be truly happy when the rest of the world suffer, struggle, fight, deceive or lie to survive.

At Desteni we are walking a new path of happiness. That includes self-responsibility, self-honesty and the realization that we exist in the context of a whole that we create through our mere existence. Thus our mere existence determines the quality of the whole, which in turn determines the quality of the individual. No one chooses the conditions into which one is born – yet those conditions determine one’s chances and options in life, due to the inequality-system (money-system /world-system) and the accepted exploitation of life on this planet. To change the world we must change the system, to change the system we must change ourselves.

I find that actual happiness comes as self-fulfilment through the small steps of daily self-application, where we start putting our realizations into practical living; where we start committing ourselves to life, to self-support, self-honesty and walk the talk.

We tend to seek ‘happiness’ through the mind, and we tend to ‘find’ stuff that seemingly ‘give’ us something, like ‘hope’ or ‘strength’. We come to many realizations through common-sensical thinking, however realization are irrelevant if they exist merely in the mind.
It’s worth seeing that realizations remain merely ‘feelings’, ‘ideas’, ‘perceptions’, when not practically lived/applied. So the feeling of ‘strength’ for instance is not yet actual strength. We all go through this process of realizing that what we are seeking is in fact ourselves, and that we gotta get on our feet and actually move ourselves, do something, develop ourselves, make decisions, make a stand, determine who we are.

And that is where practical self-directive application comes-in or/and self-correction. Walking this process, I build self-trust as I learn to trust me to live my word / my realizations – committing myself to live self-honesty and to make sure I always have the whole of existence in context, with any consideration, any decision, any application at any given moment.

Making ourselves practical, making ourselves useful – to ourselves to begin with and then consequently to others equally – that is the accumulative ‘effect’ we can ‘cause’ as actual step to happiness; it’s a process that sees self within the context of the whole / Life.
How can we start doing what’s best for all, even in the ‘smallest’ moments of our existence? – that is the question.
Within this process of self-exploration / self-investigation in the context of the Whole, we are walking practical corrective-solutions each to our own ‘individual’ issues and expand this point consequently within how we communicate with ourselves, with each-other, with life – as LIFE.

So in fact this is a mutual re-education and re-evaluation process we are walking as humanity – and there is only One principle, only One value that can guide the way: LIFE itself – which is/will be our equality and oneness, our ‘divinity’, our ‘highest potential’.

Fascinating that the point of equality and oneness is in fact the way –the only way– to actual freedom as creators, as life, as living-potentials.

2012 is The End – but it is also The Beginning.

2012 Forgive & Forget Anonymous

The year 2012 is said by many to be a year of change.
So perhaps the question is: How do we expect change to come forth?

Anonymous claim “We do not forgive. We do not forget.” This is the very nature of consciousness – the very state of mind – that manifests war in this world: by seeking revenge, by directing blame, hate, rage, by thinking in ‘us and them’, by looking for ‘justice’ within separation and power-games. All this is not allowing one to make the effort and really understand the nature of the system and how it came to be; how it continues to exist, what keeps it alive and how we are all responsible.

Here is an extraordinary interview that gives perspective on the nature of the world-system and sheds light onto the ‘how’ of our collective responsibility for What is Here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XSJOkR0YMCE


We are Destonians. We are not anonymous; on the contrary, we stand with our own names and dare to take-on the systems of our world. Because we realize responsibility for all and everything that is here.

Instead of revenge and power-games, rather we should all in fact FORGIVE and FORGET.
Why?
Because there is no way we will sort this world out through revenge, vengeance or the punishment. So much evil has occurred already and what we see is history merely repeating – no one is better than another in this world-system. We are ALL responsible, either through direct participation as cause, or through our acceptances and allowances as the effect of giving permission for things to exist as they do.
Within this whole CHAOS of cultural, religious, racial, political, ideological separation and dogmatism that exists and rules the hearts of men, there is only one way to get past this alive: Forgiveness.

Obviously forgiving others is not the point, since it is the actual tangible change that makes forgiveness real and meaningful. Forgiveness without change is useless. Therefore, each one can in essence only forgive oneself, since only self can change self for real.
Ultimately we will have to forgive each-other if we want to build a new world where we co-exist as life – and that is a point where an equality system will be of tremendous support: Forgiving all debt and establishing a new value-system based on the value of life will equalize everyone in freedom, rights, wealth and opportunities/choice in life. This is a big step that will take time and a certain process – but for now, each one can start forgiving self and changing self in a way that is of dignity and respect to life – to self, as all as one as equal.

When I say Forgive and Forget, it’s not that we ‘forget’ as you might think. But we can let go!
We do not ‘forget’ that which is real as ourselves because it’s Here. Everything is Here. Only that which has not been real – goes. It will either be LET GO of, willingly, in awareness, or it will crumble down in the end, just like the systems of the world currently.
We can Forgive and Forget the separation, the hate, the accepted ‘human nature’, the greed, the fear, the vengeance and blame. We can Forgive and Forget the power-games. We can Forgive and Forget the systems of enslavement that we’ve been allowing to govern, determine, define us – and we can create a system of life for life, taking into consideration every living thing on earth including the planet!

FORGET 2012 –
2012 is not gonna save anything: because every one will have to save themselves.

FORGIVE –
For-Give:  Give For Life.
Stop giving to the mind, the ghosts of the past, the fears and desires of a conditioned existence that is looping into implosion, self-destruction, the end.

Let’s make the end a New Beginning.
Make the decision to Stop.
Within this, we BECOME “the end” – and do not have to literally experience destruction and drive this existence into its doom.

The end is here. We are the end; and we are the Beginning.  Let’s start Here and Now, breathe, birth ourselves into Living, birth ourselves as Life. Let’s have LIFE on this planet, starting with ourselves and expanding into a new system that will restore dignity of life and enable mutual respect, self-expansion and real power as creators –
as Equals of Life.

Power-games of inferiority/superiority have proven to be unworthy and unsupportive for all – We can all agree that as living-beings that breathe on this planet we are equal. We require a CLEAN SLATE as humanity to start over in a new way of LIFE. This clean slate can only be achieved through self-realization, self-forgiveness, self-honesty and respect for life. This starts within each one individually – and collectively we can support every body in the process of self-realization through a new system of actual life-support.

Investigate the solution of equality:
http://desteni.org
http://equalmoney.org
http://eqafe.com