Self-Realization & Self-Made Polarity Experiences

Lately I was writing about my experience with people and groups of people throughout my life - and how I ended-up isolating myself and existing in judgment, which was in essence only reflecting my own self-judgment and mental polarity creations -




See the blog here: http://bellalive.multiply.com/journal/item/73/Relationships_as_Limitation_Bubbles_Fear_as_Self-Abuse


What is fascinating is that our 'experiences' are 'merely' the result of the equated definitions, conclusions and beliefs we accept throughout our lives: which makes it all but a program which, once realized, can be redefined in self-responsibility and self-respect –
thus changing our patterns of participation in this world in a way that will bring forth dignity for life.

Looking at my experience of how I perceived people and how I experienced being perceived by others, I see that one can in self-honesty look into and investigate what 'expectations' are connected to such experiences, meaning -
what does one expect people to think, how does one expect people to react to who and how one is, what does one fear as a reaction/feedback from others, what does one desire as a reaction/feedback from others.

Writing about this, one will see that one’s expectations emerge from one’s own self-created and/or accepted definitions of oneself, be it self-judgment and 'negative'-charged ideas (which would reflect that which one fears as feedback from others) or 'positive'-charged ideas about oneself (which would reflect that which one desires as feedback/'validation' from others).

So, this shows that what we think people think about us or what we perceive people experience toward us = is actually in fact our own mind. It is showing us what we ourselves have defined, created, accepted about ourselves - our fears and desires: both are polarity points that indicate self-separation, from the perspective that
- the 'negative' points one fears being seen/perceived as: are points that one has judged of/about oneself and thus separated from oneself, instead of transcending the points within and as self-equality
- the 'positive' points one desires as 'feedback', 'validation' or 'gift' from others: are points that one has not yet accepted within oneself as oneself but has separated oneself from, thinking and believing one needs to 'gain' or 'attain' them in order to be 'more'/'better'/'higher'.

Such points/ideas of 'more'/'better'/'higher' are showing us that we've actually defined self as the opposite-polarity ('less'/'worse' etc -the 'negative') and we're therefore now seeking and desiring the 'positive'.
So here we can see the trap of polarity within and as our mental 'values' - the things we place value on, in separation from ourselves as life.

So, in fact, until we start seeing and realizing what we (each one of us) have created as one's mind, what others will reflect to us will be our own ideas, fears and desires – and therefore looking at others and the feedback we get from others: we are basically seeing ourselves.

And THAT is where one can start with investigating the mind-polarities that exist within oneself as ideas, images, value-judgments etc, to start purifying one's (self-)definitions, removing the polarity, freeing oneself from the trap, and working towards a point of self-equality and oneness as life -

where the value is self here as life in the context of practical considerations from the starting-point of self-support as actual living, to no longer be subject to mental images, definitions and ideas about self and the world.



SELF-REAL-I-ZATION:
We are what we make real as ourselves -

and thus, self-real-I-zation is a space-time process as we dis-cover ourselves. Man Know Thyself - a process in time which entails several steps:

-seeing and recognizing what it is we have made real as ourselves and our self-experience in this world

-seeing and recognizing what the reality of our experience / what the participation in our patterns perpetuate in this world in the greater scheme

-making a decision as to whether or not such creation is worthy of life, whether or not what we've made real as ourselves in fact supports us as life

-forgiving our creation as ourselves and taking the responsibility to transform the equations of our creation, to stop the patterns of abuse and inequality/polarity and align our practical-living-participation to what's best for all/life, which is also what's best for us individually

-envisioning the practical correction- and transformation-steps required to make ourselves real as self-willed equals of life, as dignified individuals and responsible creators

-making ourselves real by walking that solution/correction/purification into beingness:
and through this we are bringing forth the transformation of our creation as humanity toward what is best for all as life in equality and oneness

Investigate further on self-realization at http://desteni.org
- especially in relation to self and relationships check out the new course: Agreements - Redefining Relationships

Further Support:
Self-Image and Fear of Others
Blame and Animosity
Virus Free Mind
The Emotional and Feeling Body-System and Physical Energy-Alignments

HUMANITY is a GROUP – Earthlings Come Together Here & Now

Who would imagine that the process of self-realization of Mankind would be intricately and intimately connected to the money-system of the world?!

Why do I say this? Let me explain.

Humanity is a group. 

I cannot possibly seek self-realization in a bubble where only myself or only my family or only my belief-system exists in separation from all that is here. Who I am and how I exist here is determined through all relationships I form with all and everything in my world, and in turn determines the relationships of this world. That is our Truth; it is seen in who we are in the context of the one reality we share, it is seen in how we co-exist in the world, the smaller and the greater.

Alone in the mind everyone can be a superhero. But who are we HERE? Who are we in relation to everyone and everything else? How do we participate in reality? That is what forms reality; that is what creates the ‘world as we know it’ – breath by breath, moment by moment, step by step, through eons of time we collectively and individually construct what is Here, our Here: this world.

I am here, on this earth, in this body. I don’t know where I come from, but I know that I, as all, return to the dust of the earth and leave behind the legacy of who each one is and who we are collectively. What I also know is that the legacy we’ve been carrying around through eons of time cannot be that profound, otherwise we would be facing a difference of reality; we wouldn’t be facing the world as we know it: separation, exploitation, power-games, hierarchies, false values, disregard of life.

Humanity is a group. 

This is what we realized and came together as, at Desteni – a group of people from all corners of the world standing up for life, for oneness and equality in practical-application. 

The objective is to purify that which we’ve accepted and called ‘life’ into something that is actually worth living – for all. The way is to stand together and live into creation the principle of oneness and equality, to dis-cover the value of life – the value of life is life; and all life is equally valuable. We see that it is up to us, the people, you and me, to stop our accepted ways and stand-up to form a new system that will make it possible for all to LIVE a dignified life.

We come together to be the custodians of life on earth, as Earthlings. The destonian way of life goes beyond gender, race, culture, religion, status. The destonian way of life aims to transcend any and all hierarchies, any and all separation, any and all belief-systems. So that only life remains.

Purifying ourselves, we are able to purify our world. Beginning with ourselves, we expand to all that is here. Beginning with our relationships and co-existence in the small, we expand to the bigger picture, encompassing the globe and including all life. We stand all-inclusive and we hold the self-realization as life for all, even for those who are not yet willing to give up their self-definitions, their belief-systems, their fears.

We stand all inclusive because we see that we are each the result of the relationships and circumstances we were born into. No one was ever free to live, free to be and communicate as life. We’ve only ever looked for like-minded people to ‘feel safe’, people that will agree with our beliefs and accept our weaknesses and pretenses so that no one has to change. We’ve buying into the easy-fix solutions the system seems to offer and trying and keep to ourselves because “hey, what could I possibly do…” We keep using the masks we developed as coping-mechanisms in the context of family, friends, enemies; but we never really get to know another intimately, we never really commit to anything. Instead, we submit to fear and the survival-system we are presented with from birth to death.

The time for change is Here and Now.

It is the end of the world as we know it. 

Why? 

Because we see and we understand. We can no longer hide from the truth of ourselves.

For the first time we see and realize that in order to re-create ourselves in the image and likeness of who we really are as life: we have to include everyone and everything of our world, our existence, this one reality we share. We have to responsibly investigate how we have formed and conditioned ourselves and others through relationships of dependency, mistrust, manipulation; relationships in dishonesty, secrecy, pretense.

For the first time in the history of mankind a group has come together that stands not against anyone or anything, but stands for all and for the realization of life as equality and oneness, for the actualization of life based on and as the value of life.

As Destonians we stand alone and follow no one. Yet we walk together, assisting and supporting ourselves and each-other in transforming our living-application and transcending our existence into what is best for all life.

We stand alone – all:one – because self-realization entails SELF-honesty, SELF-trust, SELF-will. No one can realize for another, no one can breathe for another. Each one must stand-up within oneself and find stability and trust on one’s own two feet. No masters and no slaves have place in a new world where life is the value.

We share our processes in public because we stand for transparency, and because we realize that the consciousness cycles we are trapped in are universal: bipolar patterns of mind control that work from inside out. We fear ourselves, the world and each-other. People conspire in greed, jealousy, anger, spite. People wallow in self-pity, vengeance, remorse.  And the current accepted system is not supporting anyone in letting go of the monsters we have created within and without, the current system is not supporting anyone in breaking the chains of this prison we call ‘life’.

Au contraire: the system re-creates the monsters through polarity education, indoctrination of fear and separation, and the monsters we become re-create the system in turn, and so history is repeating and the world is as we know it.

We stand for a new world-system/money-system that will end all hierarchies, stop all abuse and leave no room for exploitation; a new system that will be based on the value of life and created to serve and support life – all life equally.

If you get what I’m saying, then get informed, get involved, walk with us in purifying this existence, washing our brains in self-responsibility and stopping the mind-control from the inside out. As long as fear exists, life is not possible. As long as we look for saviors, we remain slaves.

We say that life is possible, and we are our own living proof. The more we share, the more people see common sense and start seeing things for what they are. Start taking self-responsibility, start recognizing the LIE in the beLIEfs we’ve created to dominate each-other and Stop.

Come together to live practical solutions into creation, solutions that will support all life equally and end separation and exploitation – once and for all.

No gods, no masters, no slaves.

LIFE HERE is possible – for ALL as ONE, as self-willed Equals of Life.

In the Spirit of Life : Equality and Oneness

“There is no spirit to set free. There is no exploring possible without considering every one else as well. If we just explore OUR WILL, we create the world in the way it is NOW. Self responsibility is to do what is best for ALL and that CAN only be done in the way that is best for ALL - A STRUCTURED WAY Considers ALL and SET ALL FREE and there is no INTOXICATING SPIRITS that want to do THEIR own thing as FREE CHOICE. No Choice is EVER FREE - there are ALWAYS consequences.”  

Change is only possible as Equal and One. This means we cannot change the world if we are not accepting ourself as the world, or if we seek to elevate ourself from what is here. This is exactly where religion, spirituality, new age and all belief-system fail, while ignoring, disregarding, denying what is here.

What is here – we have created. The spirits of our past are haunting us in every Now whispering into our ear the Future they project out of fear of losing themselves. 

This fear is like a spectre hovering in the background, keeping us from changing, attempting to preserve its self-definition, living through us, creating ‘who we are’ in this world. In accepting this fear through inaction, indifference, ignorance, denial, suppression, justifications: we are silently giving permission for fear to rule the hearts of this world and direct existence into self-destruction.

No man is an island. 

We cannot exist in separation of each-other, in separation from life without consequence. And this world – is the manifested consequence of who we are, what we have been, and what we have created. Time to face the truth of ourselves – it is Here.

Let's bring all our ‘spirits’ Here to be faced and purified until only LIFE remains as who we all really are. Real dignity, actual value: LIFE – the breath of life as equality and oneness, as the breath we all share in every moment.

Separation is not the way. Equality is. Not as a mental concept, but as a living principle - the starting point of every breath.

“When we need to remember where we are and who we are, we are Lost. When we are HERE, we will be Aware that we Have created HERE as what it is now and we have no excuse but to direct HERE to what is best for All. To be LOST is not real, it is only a television series. Memories are Always the Past. Memories are Never HERE as LIFE. Stop listening to the LOST that say you must Remember yourself. They are LOST in the ILLUSION of self created Light and Love Memories.” 

Yes, it may be ‘easier’ to remain secluded in one’s own mind and call it ‘mystical’. I have done this too, I have walked the path of spirituality in search of myself until I realized I am here; until I realized for myself that I was only creating an alternate reality bubble in separation from all that is here, while the challenge is in fact within this world and every breath we are faced with.

Yes, change takes time and we may not see the results of our contribution in our lifetime - yet every decision we make, even that of indifference, has an impact on the future, the children to come, this world as a whole, in all-times to-come. The mere fact that we are HERE is evidence of our responsibility.

Mankind is failing and falling exactly at this point of “life is too short” or “what can I do!?” - that is where most will start creating excuses and justifications to not have to stand-up and do what it takes for an accumulative effect that will bring forth actual change; most will find a way to simply ‘cope with’ what is here. Trapped in survival and self-interest, most will not care what kind of world they leave behind.

To ‘accept’ this world as it is and ‘that’s that’ : is to give permission for and allow things to continue in the world as we know it. And this world is clearly UNACCEPTABLE.

Investigate the solution of Equality. Not as a mental concept, but as a living principle: Let it be the starting point of every breath – 

Who will you be?

Self-Forgiveness to Exorcise the Habits that Inhabit us

Self-forgiveness is a system, a method, a tool to unfold and uncover the systems, patterns, habits one has become; the habits that inhabit us and take over once the trigger is pulled – a word, an image, a smell is enough to press ‘enter’ and the program runs: the human race.

Self-Forgiveness will Exorcise the Habits that Inhabit us; but then we gotta make sure they don't come back.

How do we become ‘who we are’? How come we be-come?

Self-forgiveness is like walking backwards untying the knots/nots one has tied oneself in while wandering/wondering on the thread of ‘life’.

Self-forgiveness is the unfolding of that thread to see How one is knitted, How one be-came.

Man Know Thyself.

Within this, self-honesty emerges – and yet some self-honesty, the willingness to see/face truth/oneself, is required to dare walk this path to begin with...

‘Fascinating’.

No self-forgiveness without self-honesty, and no self-honesty without self-forgiveness.

The more we allow ourselves to See, the more we place ourselves in a position to ‘get a grip’ of it all/of ourselves and determine what we will accept and allow and what not; the more we are able to take self-directive principle and determine ‘who we are’, instead of just following the program and what comes-up to drive us.

To See, however, we need to remove the veils – let go of that which we think we know; let go of that which we like to believe about ourselves, that which we justify the world with, that which we use to make excuses for our fear/’inferiority’ while projecting some ‘superior’ image of ourselves, as we cower and hide and blame others, instead of standing-up for life in self-responsibility.

by Anna Brix Thomsen

Actual self-forgiveness as life comes once we start fathoming the ‘effect’ our ‘cause’ has been having on the whole of life and this world as one; once we start seeing and realizing what it is we have been stand for and perpetuating in this world through all that which we have allowed ourselves to be equal to in our ‘inner realms’.

Seeing eye to eye, in self-honesty, we cannot but humble ourselves. Then – the choice: to either forever remain in negativity, self-anger, self-hate, self-judgment and spitefulness, OR to forgive oneself, let go, and move forward without looking back; to self-will a change that will purify, dignify and rectify self as life.

Through such self-willed ‘intervention’ (is that what ‘divine intervention’ actually is? lol) we start accumulating self-trust because we see and prove to ourselves that we are able to direct ourselves in every moment: we do not have to be victims of ‘circumstances’, we do not have to continue participating in the power-games we are educated with.

At school we learn to build ‘trust’ based in knowledge. Then we compete through knowledge and we even keep knowledge ‘secret’ to have an advantage against others! And that is how we’ve built this world.

Here we have the opportunity to build actual self-trust through ‘man know thyself’: placing ourselves in a position where we are able to determine ourselves in self-honesty and self-will; where we are able to actually move ourselves. This is self-power as life, as we stand-up through self-directive principle to live and walk as self-willed equals of life.

With self-honesty and common sense, we don’t need ‘knowledge & in-formation’ to in-form us of ‘who we are’ and how we are supposed to interact in this world. We can see where this has brought us and it is not a pretty picture. Instead, we can stand-up and in-form ourselves, and form a world that is best for all.

We are going to have to learn to trust each-other and live with each-other. This is a co-existence and no ma is an island. What we cause has an effect and all and everything that is here.

Looking again at the tool of/as self-forgiveness, we can see that: even though we are able to ‘explain’ and present and share self-forgiveness as a method, a system to work with to get to self-realization about who we are (Man Know Thyself) – actual self-forgiveness is something each one must live and discover for self, as self.

Similar it is with self-honesty; it is easier to ‘explain’/share/present what self-honesty is Not, lol. Self-honesty however is something that must be self-realized.

Self-realization, too, can be a process of self-discovery, self-introspection, self-reflection and understanding of How we got to be who/where we are today and How all the experiences and mental/emotional patterns of self were created --- but then to realize self beyond that, to make self real as life beyond conditioned stimulus-response patterns: is another story that can only be self-realized through self-actualization: real-living, real-I, real-time, breath by breath, in every moment.

That’s why it was/is suggested that we walk this process in every breath, one breath at a time, one point at a time, until it’s done. Patience is required - not the easiest of virtues, lol. But is there another way?

Trapped in time, created through time, we must work with time to re-create ourselves in dignity and respect, in a way that we can live with ourselves without regret, without shame; and in a way we can live with each-other without harm, without spite, without secrets.

We are going for it – facing the inevitable that is ourselves.

by Bastian Neumann

“Self honesty takes TIME as you are a creature of TIME and you must understand how you have CREATED yourself through TIME. Once you grasp TIME and how that can be manipulated, you will realize the importance of being in TIME and on TIME, directing time as the TIMEKEEPER called BREATH until all time can be trusted to serve only LIFE. When this is done – we will have ETERNAL time as no matter who will be born where, it will be into heaven here on EARTH” – Bernard Poolman

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Re-defining Ascension in Equality & Oneness

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a process of self-actualization...

ART by Ann van den Broeck

One cannot view the ‘person’ in separation from the whole/world; because in fact it is who each one is that creates the world as we know it.

Self-Honesty as life is not about ‘rules’. If all were self-honest and lived as life which means as equals, no rules would be needed to ‘protect’ one from another.

Observe and notice that ‘disagreement’ is always coming from mind/separation/self-righteousness that is ego-centered, while ‘agreement’ always come from physical/actual/life-awareness that is holistic.

At Desteni we work on ‘evolving’ the mind through self-will to be equal and one as Life, as that which is best for all.

We work on and suggest ‘stopping the mind’ of separation that is our conditioned beliefs, fears as well as mental and emotional patterns, and ‘elevating the mind’ as who we are/have become from a limited one-dimensional reality (ego) that is split in time to an All-encompassing physical reality Here –

This is the ‘highest’ one can get in ‘ascension’: to stand accountable for ‘who we are’ in all ways and start Living a co-existence that is best for all. That is Equality and Oneness as Life. Then ‘love’ is ‘work made visible’ as self-realized life.

It is going to take ‘time’ as it is a process through time and space, but no self-realization is possible in disregard of the context of self, which is: this world, this reality.

ART by Bastian Neumann

Honesty vs Self-Honesty – System vs Life

Honesty vs Self-Honesty – System vs Life

---Equations for Self-Realization---

Given that our current definition of a System is not life-supportive but rather life-depleting, and given that Life is that which we all have in common and (common-sensically) that which should protected and supported in all ways –

I looked to constructively investigate the differences between System and Life, and also to see What is common sense within/of a System and What is common sense within/of Life.

All can agree that systematic patterns, systematic behaviour, systematic occurrence is based on conditioned stimuli-response-patterns, and is thus never truly self-directed; systematic approach is reactive approach, instead of active participation from a starting-point of self.

From this one could deduct the ‘definition’ that life is that which is free of pre-programming; life is self-directive; life is not the energetics we exist within, life is not single ‘frequencies’ – life is source, unlimited, sound.

Here follow some expressions from the perspective of equality - a comparative differentiation between ‘systematic common sense’ and common sense of life, as well as a parallel differentiation between ‘honesty’ and self-honesty:

SYSTEM COMMON SENSE 
*I am defined by that to which I am attached 
*fixed opinion, justification is necessary 
*definitions exist so that I may exist 

Honesty: through my personality I demonstrate who (I believe) I AM

COMMON SENSE OF LIFE 
*no attachment – no definition 
*no opinion - only self-expression as the moment one and equal

*Man Know Thyself

Self-Honesty: I live who I really am – There exists no need/want /desire to demonstrate or acquire ‘validation’

SYSTEM COMMON SENSE 
*change is dangerous - because change threatens my definitions, attachments, opinions, therefore it threatens me
*change exists as evolution - I change, therefore I become ‘better’ 

*I change according to trends, situations, environment – my ‘honesty’ is defined by these factors

COMMON SENSE OF LIFE
*change is not an act 
*change is - as the only certainty – the flow of life

...will I direct myself to change/flow as life
or will I allow myself to be changed into yet another system?

Self-Honesty: I remain ‘who I am’ regardless what the situation demands from me – change doesn’t change ‘me’ = I ‘know’ ‘who I am’, I am here

SYSTEM COMMON SENSE 
*I perceive choice 
*I am defined by my choices 

Honesty: I choose to ‘love’ or ‘hate’, ‘like’ or ‘dislike’

Choice is (ab)used to abuse
COMMON SENSE OF LIFE 
*no choice exists - life does not choose to be life 

Self-Honesty: I realize the source of ‘like’ or dislike’ as based on programming/resonance – and that I did not direct myself to my choices, rather, my choices have been impulse unto me. I also realize that those impulses have been systematic and not of who I am as life.

Now I have an actual choice: self-honesty as life, or self-dishonesty whereby I would continue to identify with and define myself by my ‘choices’ as all external factors making-up my ‘identity’ in the system



SYSTEM COMMON SENSE 
*if I just make my box big enough, I can be free 

Honesty: “I will be free when I’m able to do whatever I want”

COMMON SENSE OF LIFE 
*freedom exists only of self as life - as who I am as life 

*real freedom cannot be limited by a box
*real freedom exists from the starting-point of self within and as self-honesty 
given that self = life = all = equal – freedom of self implies that none are free unless all are free

SYSTEM COMMON SENSE fears the unknown - thus it evolves into and as that which is already known 

Honesty: “I AM.... divinexxx”

LIFE is the unknown (COMMON SENSE) 
SELF-HONEST common sense dares the unknown and despite all definition remains undefined



A SYSTEM exists equal to and one with the system it is

*per definition a system exists in/as polarity and separation – look around - and that this is so, is COMMON SENSE for the SYSTEM

That is the Honesty of the system.

LIFE exists within and as oneness and equality, within and as awareness of oneness and equality as all as one as equal. Thus – no separation, no polarity.

In Self-Honesty, self = life = all = equal. Oneness and equality OF LIFE is SELF-HONEST COMMON SENSE



SYSTEM COMMON SENSE 
*the others come first when it´s about blame & judgement 
*self comes first when it´s about profit/attainment/achievement 

This is Honesty of the system – it exists in self-justification / self-interest

SELF-HONEST COMMON SENSE 
*self first 
as self is all as one as equal of life 
*there exists nothing that is not of self as all as one as equal 

and thus self always considers what is best for all: self-honesty as life



SYSTEM COMMON SENSE 
*awareness is considered and defined as ‘attainment’ or ‘higher purpose’ separate from self and is desired as ‘power’ over others - without the realization that awareness in separation leads to yet more separation 
Or

*one often ‘accepts’ limitation/inferiority/being inadequate, so as to remain in one’s ‘comfort zone’ – justifying this with words like “I’m just not good enough, honestly!” That is ‘honesty’ of systems.

SELF-HONEST COMMON SENSE 
*awareness is here as self:
self-awareness in every breath as the law of self and the natural beingness and hereness of life 
*awareness is awareness as life self as all as one as equal 

within and as self-awareness, LIFE allows no separation within self and all as self. 

Self-Honesty allows for one to see one’s own imposed/accepted limitations and realize that ultimately one can only break-through through self-will and letting go of ego.

SYSTEM COMMON SENSE is conditional, conditioned and conditioning 

“I’ll do this for you (then honestly you must you do this for me)”  

COMMON SENSE OF LIFE is none of the above - it is unconditional  

SELF-HONEST COMMON SENSE in application is unconditional - never conditional, conditioned or conditioning - One never does something ‘for another’ – that would imply separation - it is always self

SYSTEM COMMON SENSE can be ‘bought’ and/or ‘attained’ and is used to validate, justify and sustain the system 

“Honestly, if you got the money – I’m yours!”

SELF-HONEST COMMON SENSE is priceless and cannot be attained but only self-realized - and is applied to support and honor LIFE as all as one as equal of life 

SELF-HONEST COMMON SENSE serves no purpose but LIFE
in the realization that the value of life is life



SYSTEM COMMON SENSE is the mind abusing life 

“I am an honest person..., but...”

“I’d really like to do this now, but I’d rather do it tomorrow, because...”

COMMON SENSE OF LIFE is life in application 
SELF-HONEST COMMON SENSE is being and supporting life as all as one as equal

Self-honesty is ‘in the moment’ – every moment there exists a single actual choice: self-honesty or self-dishonesty – ‘Who am I within it all?’

SYSTEM COMMON SENSE: it is good to wait, “waiting is wise”

In the system we reason with time to manipulate things to our personal self-interest

“Honestly, – I have time or I don’t have enough time, I don’t have time at all....” - "If only I had the time..."
SELF-HONEST COMMON SENSE: ‘waiting’ does not exist’, as life is here within and as every moment.

I, as who I am of life, am here within and as every moment of breath, thus ‘waiting’ is self-dishonesty.

Self-honesty is walked Here, in every here-moment of breath.

SYSTEM COMMON SENSE will place the system support before life. Look at the current world system.

“Honestly” often indicates explanatory factors and a point of view separate from the common good.

In SELF-HONEST COMMON SENSE life always comes first: what is best for all. What does not support all/life is simply unacceptable. 

Self-honesty has no need for validation. I either do what is best for all or not. Self-honesty is to act like all is always known to all. Imagine all standing at the end of time and seeing it all. Validation/Justification is irrelevant.

Equal Money is Life for All - Common Sense

Search the web for further perspectives on Honesty vs Self-Honesty, here is a couple of more:

http://jjesusprocess.blogspot.com/2011/05/honesty-vs-self-honesty.html

http://cameronsprocess.blogspot.com/2011/05/what-is-difference-between-honesty-and.html

http://innosentence.blogspot.com/2011/05/me-being-honest-versus-me-being-self.html