Beautiful People are born from Ugliness | Really? Do we need War to birth Peace?

“The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These people have an appreciation, a sensitivity and understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen”  - Elisabeth Kübler-Ross

So what is implied here is that struggle and abuse is required in order to cultivate strength of character – instead of realizing the simple principle of character as principle: principles that are based on common sense, the value of life and the self-clarity or should we say sanity to not accept or allow abuse NO MATTER WHAT.
It is an indication of EGO wanting to justify struggle, pain, abuse in this world with the concept that THAT is what makes people beautiful, strong, better. It is saying that good can only exist through polarity. What is then the point of the endless war between good and bad? Can anyone ever really win? Or is the whole point damned to eternal re-cycling, with only some feeling BETTER about themselves for a moment, the moment they can say or think “hey what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger”.
Victims of rape, abuse, violence may occasionally stand up and speak out and be strong – but what about the thousands or millions of silent victims that never share their story, that grow up to turn the tables ad be abusers just for the sake of balancing out the equation.

Do you need hurt to find compassion?
Do you need struggle to find peace?
Do you need violence to find gentleness?
Do you need loss to find fulfilment?
If this has been ‘your way’ then the best thing to do is understand that the world that allows fur this kind of bipolar conditions: is the consequence of the system we have accepted to run our lives, our world; it is the effect of our cause, equal and one; a reflection of who we are and how we co-exist.

To defend this polarity and USE it to justify one's belief-systems and validate violence, abuse and the exploitation of life as something that is “part of life” and a “lesson to learn” that “makes you stronger” because that is how you can feel better about yourself or because that is the only way you believe those in struggle find their strength – is ludicrous, is selfish, is EGO, is INSANE.


Let's have a closer look at what it is that is actually being cultivated through such belief-system:

the establishment of injustice and inequality as “just how things are”; the excuse for using blame, projection and pointing fingers at others without understanding how they as all of us have been created through this system of polarity where we are forced to struggle and compete against each-other to supposedly EARN the right to life, to supposedly WIN the race, the human race that is a nazi against itself.

What is being cultivated is the need for and the apparent ‘normality’ of finding 'justice' through separation, through self-gratification, through vengeance, through polarization. Instead of realizing that there can be no justice in this current system/world as we know it: we require a total-new structure to support life in this world, and to do that we have to start thinking OUTSIDE THE BOX we have created/accepted/allowed - OUTSIDE the 'rules' and 'laws' we conduct our existence by. We have to stop fighting for our limitations.


The statement quoted further implies that pain, struggle, loss: is the only way to find understanding, depth, appreciation, beauty.
Existing within such a belief-system, what are the consequences?

One will justify abuse; one will justify suffering; one will continue to create religions and hierarchies; one will continue to create ‘heroes’ and ‘martyrs’, placing them on pedestals, making more people wanna be like them...
One will continue to allow atrocity in this world and call it 'learning lessons' despite no one ever learning anything (because obviously nothing is changing and history is only repeating); one will create ‘martyrdom’ as ‘purpose’, as way of life, in fact as a way to be ‘special’ and ‘gain’ appreciation and some ‘self-worth’...

Is all that not selfish? Is that all in fact not a self-imposed depreciation of oneself as life, a depreciation of life itself!

Such belief-system is clearly a false view of reality based in the self-deception of EGO; painting a beautiful picture to not see the abuse we are existing in, to not have to take responsibility for the atrocity we allow in this world, to not have to wake-up from our denial and stand-up to STOP.

Wake Up and Change the Desteni of Mankind!

The Bible and other Cults

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"The Bible and other Cults" - or 

Cultivating Relationships of actual Life Value 

The bible is not 'wrong' – it is a tool like everything else - the only problem is man's interpretation of the tools that exist in this world. Do the bible cult and other religions ‘love their neighbour’? Look at the middle east, look at the far west. Everywhere we look, we see man use the tools in a way that is called ‘divide and conquer’ – this is based in fear and only creates fear.

Why do we raise our children in fear, why do we run our relationships in fear, how can we ever ever be ‘for real’ if everything we do and everything we are: is based in fear. The relationships in our world could be something that shows us what we do not (yet) see of ourselves, like a mirror held into our face so that we may see what has become of us, so that we may have a chance to change ourselves, so that we may take responsibility.

Yet we don't do that. Our relationships are based in power-games, and power-games are based in fear; and fear is mind-control working from the inside out. 

With initially a small group of individuals that started investigating the practical aspects of reality and the individual within it all, we said 'enough is enough - no more fear!', and at Desteni we come together to stop this mind-control and support ourselves and each-other in seeing eye to eye, no longer hiding from reality, no longer hiding from ourselves. Self-honesty; Man Know Thyself. 

It's not about the group in the end and Desteni as a group will eventually no longer exist – when the whole world is One group, One family, One life ...names are irrelevant. At the moment however it IS about the group because that is the reference point we have created together in value of life, and that is where we make sure that ego will stand no chance against life. Through the group each one is mirrored ten-fold to help ourselves see, to make sure we don't fuck with ourselves, but remain response-able for 'who we are'; to make sure we do not delude ourselves with self-sabotage or illusions of grandeur – but instead remain ‘here’, grounded, humble, working with whatever comes up, bringing any given point to an alignment that is supportive of life as who we really are.

This is self-empowerment; the transcendence of ego beyond polarity in practical living application. After all – it’s about ‘who we are’, and it’s ourselves we gotta live with in the end.

We’ve had enough Napoleons, we’ve had enough Stalins; we’ve had enough abused, enough abusers. 

Enough is enough! The world is full of cults and look, one can identify them as being exclusive. 

We need a CULTURE of LIFE that is all-inclusive : we need to Cultivate Life in ourselves and each-other. Life is One, Life is All, Life is Equal. The value of life is life.

Art by Damian Ledesma 

Exclusive relationships, including if not especially family and friends, are often only functional as long as one submit to them and does not change. As soon as anything goes deeper, beyond the surface of things ‘as we know them’... it is perceived as a threat.

Everyday relationships that have a ‘personal’ face-to-face reality should be a place where all back-chat can be sorted out through intimate communication.

Why is this not happening? Why do we not learn to trust ourselves and each-other? Why do we treat our ‘loved ones’ like territory?
A person should not be ‘territory’ – Each grown-up person should be able to make their own decisions about what they stand for in life, who they will be/become and what kind of world they want to bring forth for the children to come. 

We should stop projecting our own fears and desires upon our children – This has not made the world a better place, it has only passed on the ‘sins of the fathers’ that seem to loop into infinity unless something, unless someone Stop and stand-up to say ‘Till Here No Further.

How can the world really change, if all change is faced with fear...
How can the world really change if every one submit and submerge oneself to the way things have always been...
How can the world really change, if you and me, the building blocks of our world, do not change...

In this one world we share, in this space-time reality, everyone is walking the same process and is faced with the same points at different times in life. Facing oneself and one’s reality is inevitable. Blaming and pointing fingers doesn’t work; as each one is always self-responsible, each one is always facing oneself, and all will inevitably face all and everything. 

Whether one walk this life process in directive will or whether one wait for things to ‘happen’ before one is forced to face oneself – the outcome is in the end the same. The difference is in the degree of inner suffering and the time to self-realization, both points directly connected to self-responsibility.

At Desteni we are walking the path of self-responsibility, taking things into our hands and working on accelerating the process so as to prevent further suffering in the world and within ourselves.

Family and friends is the system-unit we know best.

We are born of a system into a system. Family as the first and smallest system compartment is the group that defines ‘who we are’, give us ‘purpose and meaning’ based on tradition, culture, religion, belief, society/status, forefathers: the family determines what it is one must give ‘value’ to.

Individuals are seen as the ‘keepers’ of those values, and are in fact the ‘keepers’ of the system, this world as we know it. Because see – everywhere we look, we’ll see people fight over traditions, religions, beliefs; people kill each-other over different ‘values’, while the highest value – life itself as who we all really are – is disregarded.

It seems the very fight for one’s ‘own values’ is what serves the ‘forked tongue of the snake’: it feeds the ego and at the same time preserves the status quo – the world system as we know it.

The ‘big players’ of the world stage have long understood this principle, and rule the whole world by what is called ‘divide & conquer’: let them fight, let them blame each-other, let them be weak.

Obviously any significant change in the application of the average person’s separatist behaviour and egotistic ‘human nature’ is perceived as a threat to the ‘status quo’. To deal with this sudden ‘fear’, the system will seek ways of ‘control’ and will try and make the individual submit and submerge itself to ‘its grouping’ – until the individual is put back into ‘its place’.

As long as we fear each-other, as long as accept ourselves as inFearior: the system prevails.

At Desteni we understand/realize that a change in the world cannot come forth by itself; an actual change in the world cannot come forth without change of the individual through self-will to no longer be subject to the current and seemingly infinite system of separation, fear and abuse while history is repeating.

If we don’t stop history, history will stop us – and mankind as a whole will be facing its end while it’s busy fighting itself in a trivial war against each-other.

This current system of separation exists both within and without and is the consciousness we have all accepted and allowed to be ‘this existence’ as if it’s real, as if it’s who we really are; we call it ‘the ways of the world’ and ‘human nature’, while our consciousness, our mere existence not only undermines the value of life but actually harms that which we all have in common: Life.

We see it all around, and it’s time we stop.

Art by Matti Freeman

Heaven on Earth is possible Here ...If we stand-up and stop this hell

where is the Passion

life in a nutshell

behind wet eyes

or in a moment of surprise

it is there

- where?

closes-down when fear rise

and from the depths it arise

from the passion of life´s lies

a monster is born -

a demon that was man that was god

now it´s all sold

where´s the passion

the passion of life betrayed

encoded, encaged

in a system of the dawn

of the rise of a god of pain

a god of gain

all you say is in vain

the story remain the same

all is kept in oblivion

where man is infearior

to his very own fear

and when he shed a tear

no-one hear -and it´s a gear

for the system of the dawn

of the rise of the god of old rome

where the trophy is chains

on mistresses´ necks

and the feet of the slaves

while man enslaves

himself

the passion of life betrayed

encoded, encaged

in a system of the dawn

of the rise of a god of pain

a god of gain

all you say is in vain

the story remain the same

life has become a nutshell

all gone nuts and you can´t tell

what is real and what´s a spell

-but you can tell: man fell

now the passion of life in a nutshell

get-up, burst the shell

find your Passion -break the spell

dare to feel what is real

you Here - stop the fear

taste the nut - it´s all you got

you are your god - Stop

Man as Sketchbook

we each are like a sketchbook, where those that have gone before us write-in what & who we're supposed to be...the script and the rules of 'the game' - the same rules that were passed onto them by those who have gone before them.

So the world is never-changing. we are accepting the unacceptable -and so it cycles. different stories, same shit.
shame.

we're living a li(F)e.


When we dare to erase all that input and wipe the book blank - we realize that we are actually creator, director.

now we gotta write our own script.
we can't use the tools/rules that were used for the script we erase(d) - because we'd only be creating another version of what has been. even a polarity-version of 'what has been' would still be supporting the system, the 'forces at work' that see the world as a game, humanity on a chessboard - and the game never-stops as long as the figures keep moving, black against white, white against black, winning and losing and winning and losing, in fact just losing, over and over and over again.
there is no stability, no living spirit; only the game and man's urge to win.
...the 'human race'...

it looks like the game has automated itself, the 'big players' long-gone in their own delusion - the only winner: the game itself.

stop the game - now we gotta write our own script.

obviously there's one thing we gotta consider in doing that: it must be livable by all equally, it must consider all Life equally.
the point of LIFE as equal value, as the equal substance we all have in common - is the point that
has been missed.
it is obvious common sense that all Life is equal, but we are not equal to that, we do not live the value of Life.
WE ARE the 'missing link'. the 'missing link' is HERE.

now we gotta realize/materialize the tools we need to support Life in actuality, in fact - to support who we all really are as Life, equally.

what can we do?

be response-able for Life. support ourselves and those in our world in SELF-HONESTY as Life.
we gotta think 'outside the board'. this is not a fucking game. fuck the rules. fuck morality.
there is no morality in this world. it is a lie.
stop power-games, stop blame. there is no-one to blame; blame is merely abdication of

self-responsibility. we are the ones that 've been accepting what is here - the world is showing us who we are. time to say No More!

stand-up and live common sense. use what is here, use the game against itself, support in creating a win-win situation for all Life, each one starting with self, each one in our own 'little' world.
be direct, accept no limitation, accept no justification, accept no separation.

stop fear.
stop greed.
stop beLIEf.
stop dreaming.
stop self-abuse.
stop hiding.
stop blame.
stop revenge.
stop your mind that tells you you are special.
stop your programmed thinking patterns.
think for yourself in common sense.
think for Life.

stop limitation.
LIVE.
accept nothing less than who you really are.

we ARE the tools.
we ARE the canvas, the painter and the brush.

wipe the canvas.
script a live-able Reality for you as for all.
script Living as practical Equality.

so that what we script may stand for eternity - with no shame, no regret.
so that who we are stand for eternity - worthy of Life.
Equal and one as Life.

STOP The Game

On the Chessboard of this CONsciousness-reality

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Do you CHOOSE whether you´re Black or White??

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Whether you´re Black or White: You play the Game

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Are you defined by the Game?

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Do you defend the Game?

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Would you still defend it if you were on the opposite side of the COIN? If you were subject to Starvation, Hunger, War, Famine, Abuse, Molestation…

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Do you defend your Color – your CULTure - your Position in the Game?

Do you want what you ´do not have´?

Can you Stop the Game?

for `Love´ to exist = Hate must exist

for `Freedom´ to exist = Limitation must exist

for `Peace´ to exist = War must exist

for `Justice´ to exist = Abuse must exist

for `God´ to exist = Fear must exist

for `Control´ to exist = Distrust must exist

for `Wealth´ to exist = Starvation must exist

for ‘Oneness’ to exist = Separation must exist

for `Angels´ to exist = `Evil´ must exist

for ‘Masters’ to exist = Slavery must exist

Is this the Game you want to play?

Don´t you see that those who `Enjoy the Game´ only do so because they HAPPENED to be on the `Sunny-Side´ of ‘life’?

Look:

ALL is Here in and as Self

The Game exist in and as Self

SELF must Stop the Game

STOP the Game & SEE what is Real Here

Find COMMON SENSE - Support LIFE

LIFE is EQUAL in ALL Beings