Honesty vs Self-Honesty – System vs Life

Honesty vs Self-Honesty – System vs Life

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Given that our current definition of a System is not life-supportive but rather life-depleting, and given that Life is that which we all have in common and (common-sensically) that which should protected and supported in all ways –

I looked to constructively investigate the differences between System and Life, and also to see What is common sense within/of a System and What is common sense within/of Life.

All can agree that systematic patterns, systematic behaviour, systematic occurrence is based on conditioned stimuli-response-patterns, and is thus never truly self-directed; systematic approach is reactive approach, instead of active participation from a starting-point of self.

From this one could deduct the ‘definition’ that life is that which is free of pre-programming; life is self-directive; life is not the energetics we exist within, life is not single ‘frequencies’ – life is source, unlimited, sound.

Here follow some expressions from the perspective of equality - a comparative differentiation between ‘systematic common sense’ and common sense of life, as well as a parallel differentiation between ‘honesty’ and self-honesty:

SYSTEM COMMON SENSE 
*I am defined by that to which I am attached 
*fixed opinion, justification is necessary 
*definitions exist so that I may exist 

Honesty: through my personality I demonstrate who (I believe) I AM

COMMON SENSE OF LIFE 
*no attachment – no definition 
*no opinion - only self-expression as the moment one and equal

*Man Know Thyself

Self-Honesty: I live who I really am – There exists no need/want /desire to demonstrate or acquire ‘validation’

SYSTEM COMMON SENSE 
*change is dangerous - because change threatens my definitions, attachments, opinions, therefore it threatens me
*change exists as evolution - I change, therefore I become ‘better’ 

*I change according to trends, situations, environment – my ‘honesty’ is defined by these factors

COMMON SENSE OF LIFE
*change is not an act 
*change is - as the only certainty – the flow of life

...will I direct myself to change/flow as life
or will I allow myself to be changed into yet another system?

Self-Honesty: I remain ‘who I am’ regardless what the situation demands from me – change doesn’t change ‘me’ = I ‘know’ ‘who I am’, I am here

SYSTEM COMMON SENSE 
*I perceive choice 
*I am defined by my choices 

Honesty: I choose to ‘love’ or ‘hate’, ‘like’ or ‘dislike’

Choice is (ab)used to abuse
COMMON SENSE OF LIFE 
*no choice exists - life does not choose to be life 

Self-Honesty: I realize the source of ‘like’ or dislike’ as based on programming/resonance – and that I did not direct myself to my choices, rather, my choices have been impulse unto me. I also realize that those impulses have been systematic and not of who I am as life.

Now I have an actual choice: self-honesty as life, or self-dishonesty whereby I would continue to identify with and define myself by my ‘choices’ as all external factors making-up my ‘identity’ in the system



SYSTEM COMMON SENSE 
*if I just make my box big enough, I can be free 

Honesty: “I will be free when I’m able to do whatever I want”

COMMON SENSE OF LIFE 
*freedom exists only of self as life - as who I am as life 

*real freedom cannot be limited by a box
*real freedom exists from the starting-point of self within and as self-honesty 
given that self = life = all = equal – freedom of self implies that none are free unless all are free

SYSTEM COMMON SENSE fears the unknown - thus it evolves into and as that which is already known 

Honesty: “I AM.... divinexxx”

LIFE is the unknown (COMMON SENSE) 
SELF-HONEST common sense dares the unknown and despite all definition remains undefined



A SYSTEM exists equal to and one with the system it is

*per definition a system exists in/as polarity and separation – look around - and that this is so, is COMMON SENSE for the SYSTEM

That is the Honesty of the system.

LIFE exists within and as oneness and equality, within and as awareness of oneness and equality as all as one as equal. Thus – no separation, no polarity.

In Self-Honesty, self = life = all = equal. Oneness and equality OF LIFE is SELF-HONEST COMMON SENSE



SYSTEM COMMON SENSE 
*the others come first when it´s about blame & judgement 
*self comes first when it´s about profit/attainment/achievement 

This is Honesty of the system – it exists in self-justification / self-interest

SELF-HONEST COMMON SENSE 
*self first 
as self is all as one as equal of life 
*there exists nothing that is not of self as all as one as equal 

and thus self always considers what is best for all: self-honesty as life



SYSTEM COMMON SENSE 
*awareness is considered and defined as ‘attainment’ or ‘higher purpose’ separate from self and is desired as ‘power’ over others - without the realization that awareness in separation leads to yet more separation 
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*one often ‘accepts’ limitation/inferiority/being inadequate, so as to remain in one’s ‘comfort zone’ – justifying this with words like “I’m just not good enough, honestly!” That is ‘honesty’ of systems.

SELF-HONEST COMMON SENSE 
*awareness is here as self:
self-awareness in every breath as the law of self and the natural beingness and hereness of life 
*awareness is awareness as life self as all as one as equal 

within and as self-awareness, LIFE allows no separation within self and all as self. 

Self-Honesty allows for one to see one’s own imposed/accepted limitations and realize that ultimately one can only break-through through self-will and letting go of ego.

SYSTEM COMMON SENSE is conditional, conditioned and conditioning 

“I’ll do this for you (then honestly you must you do this for me)”  

COMMON SENSE OF LIFE is none of the above - it is unconditional  

SELF-HONEST COMMON SENSE in application is unconditional - never conditional, conditioned or conditioning - One never does something ‘for another’ – that would imply separation - it is always self

SYSTEM COMMON SENSE can be ‘bought’ and/or ‘attained’ and is used to validate, justify and sustain the system 

“Honestly, if you got the money – I’m yours!”

SELF-HONEST COMMON SENSE is priceless and cannot be attained but only self-realized - and is applied to support and honor LIFE as all as one as equal of life 

SELF-HONEST COMMON SENSE serves no purpose but LIFE
in the realization that the value of life is life



SYSTEM COMMON SENSE is the mind abusing life 

“I am an honest person..., but...”

“I’d really like to do this now, but I’d rather do it tomorrow, because...”

COMMON SENSE OF LIFE is life in application 
SELF-HONEST COMMON SENSE is being and supporting life as all as one as equal

Self-honesty is ‘in the moment’ – every moment there exists a single actual choice: self-honesty or self-dishonesty – ‘Who am I within it all?’

SYSTEM COMMON SENSE: it is good to wait, “waiting is wise”

In the system we reason with time to manipulate things to our personal self-interest

“Honestly, – I have time or I don’t have enough time, I don’t have time at all....” - "If only I had the time..."
SELF-HONEST COMMON SENSE: ‘waiting’ does not exist’, as life is here within and as every moment.

I, as who I am of life, am here within and as every moment of breath, thus ‘waiting’ is self-dishonesty.

Self-honesty is walked Here, in every here-moment of breath.

SYSTEM COMMON SENSE will place the system support before life. Look at the current world system.

“Honestly” often indicates explanatory factors and a point of view separate from the common good.

In SELF-HONEST COMMON SENSE life always comes first: what is best for all. What does not support all/life is simply unacceptable. 

Self-honesty has no need for validation. I either do what is best for all or not. Self-honesty is to act like all is always known to all. Imagine all standing at the end of time and seeing it all. Validation/Justification is irrelevant.

Equal Money is Life for All - Common Sense

Search the web for further perspectives on Honesty vs Self-Honesty, here is a couple of more:

http://jjesusprocess.blogspot.com/2011/05/honesty-vs-self-honesty.html

http://cameronsprocess.blogspot.com/2011/05/what-is-difference-between-honesty-and.html

http://innosentence.blogspot.com/2011/05/me-being-honest-versus-me-being-self.html

in Self-Honesty : Communication implies Directive

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Looking at a pattern of ‘communication’ where instead of being straight-forward within and as self-directive power, one will rather ‘wait’ for the other to ‘come forward’ and give direction or make a suggestion one can ‘relate’ to.

Why is this a problem?
If one ‘wait and see what’s coming’ to then accordingly interact – What does that imply? One is not communicating, one is reacting. Action-Reaction accumulated, one will end-up in a chain of reactive patterns not knowing how one got there. 
Action-Reaction is not Communication. 

Reactive behaviour stems from lack of self-determination: Out of ‘fear of being direct’, one will behave ‘indirectly’ and attempt to anticipate and manipulate another and/or one’s reality.
If we look at this perceived ‘infeariority’ (‘fear of being direct’) more closely, we can see that it is but a justification for cowardice and self-dishonesty. Fear always hides self-dishonesty and that is a ‘flag-point’ we can use to assist and support ourselves with effective self-direction. 

What is the ‘fear’ actually about? Let’s see: Being direct and communicating straight-forward implies Responsibility – Self-Responsibility and accountability for ‘who I am’ and how I co-exist and interact within my world.
Thus, ‘fear of being direct/directive’ is ‘fear of self-responsibility’/’fear of accountability’. What does that imply? That one does not trust oneself to direct oneself and one’s world as best for all and be accountable for every thought, word and deed.

It is easy to leave it upon the other to direct, while one simply ‘wait and see’. Being a Re-Actor one can blame another or blame one’s world, as one abdicate Responsibility for what is ‘happening’ to oneself and others in one’s world.

Being directive, one is an ‘activist’, a ‘practivist’. Taking self-directive power, one will communicate oneself directly, and will consequently take self-responsibility.

Because we either sit and wait and allow for things to ‘happen to us’, or we must ‘make things happen’ by our own directive will, in self-responsibility.


In the Communication model, within Actual Communication, both individuals are able to stand in equality and oneness and equally communicate self-directive will. The responsibility that goes with the consideration of equality means that the systems created within and through Communication will consequently serve what’s best for all as support to ‘who we are’ and how we are directing ‘our Here’, our common ground.
Communication is about communicating SELF, communicating directly ‘who we are’; When we communicate about points it is within the context of sharing ourselves and/or building support-structures for ‘who we are’.

In the Action-Reaction model however, one will create systems in separation, as personas and ideas through which one attempt to ‘communicate’ – thereby completely ‘missing’ oneself and each-other.


Communication is ‘physical’, direct and open in nature; it is ‘what is here’, as ‘who we are’. It is ‘immediate’. Responsibility is the 1+1 ‘consequence’ one will inevitably realize.

Action-Reaction is of ‘mind’, secretive in nature, based on interpretations of what is here. It is ‘mediate’. Responsibility is abdicated in fear of ‘consequence’.




We can see that Self-Honesty as ‘Man Know Thyself’ is imperative in the self-realization process of mankind. 
Because when one know oneself, consequence is not something to be feared or avoided; Consequence is simply the common-sensical outflow of ‘who I am’, the outcome of the steps I take in every breath : Self.Response.Ability. And when one’s ‘account’ is clear, one make oneself ‘able’ : Account.Able

We must push ourselves to learn how to truly communicate; with ourselves first, to firstly take responsibility for who we are and how our existence affects our world – and then with each-other based on the principle of equality and equal respect. 

We must learn to be directive, taking on the self-directive will to shape our world explicitly. 

We must be straight-forward and responsible, to live without shame, to live without regret, embracing ourselves and each-other in mutual recognition as life.

Family Ties – Adults Demon-strate for Children : The Daily quest for Power & Attention

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What we Demon-strate for Children : The Daily quest for ‘Power’ & ‘Attention’...

At a family gathering today I was watching a 7-year old boy playing with his 3-year old sister. What I witnessed was a power-game, all about attention, all about who each one is for/within oneself, using the other to achieve that ‘worth’/’value’ about/within oneself through competition and comparison.

 

I found myself in an awkward place.

You cannot blame the children, they are only repeating the words they hear from their parents, in exactly the manner they hear them, using them to manipulate in exactly the same fashion.

Starting with the first child which, inevitably will experience itself dominated by its parents (tired and frustrated within the current vampire of a money-system, yes) – this child will, as soon as it has a sibling and realizes the ‘difference’ in age, approach, attention etc., start adopting and copying ways to dominate the sibling and become ‘first’ in a hierarchy it will (re-)create itself, based on how it perceives the hierarchy through its experiences with the adults around it.

And daily, that ‘constellation’, the one that makes it ‘feel good’, ‘feel important’, ‘feel worthy’ – has to be re-established, no matter what. Any drama is a means to one’s goal of retrieving ‘power’ through ‘attention’.

Looking at the ‘grown-ups’, the ‘adults’ – this is exactly the ‘motto’ passed on. “This is what it’s about.” Maybe not in these words, though children need no words. They see. They do the math. They get it. And slowly but surely they start to become that which will suck you dry for ‘power’. That is, what the ‘adults’ have defined as ‘power’.

And it is horrifying how words are used in unawareness, as if the whole achievement lies within being a parrot to ‘grown-ups’. The child will simply repeat not only the word, but the whole value-system, the whole matrix behind it. And in its innocence and unconditional trust towards the parent or adult, the child will not only define the words according to the input and the ‘morality’/‘value’ resonating with it, but it will also define itself based on the adult’s  feedback/reaction to the child repeating the words and manners ‘demon-strated’ to it by the ‘grown-ups’.

A whole fakeness of a system is being created, an invisible wall to any direct communication about/as the actuality of reality. 

There is a huge lack on real communication about life & living as ‘who we are’; Instead, what is being ‘played with’ / ‘communicated with’ to ‘justify’ the power-games that become the reality of any consciousness system, is a ‘morality’ based in ‘reward’ and ‘punishment’ that is called ‘love’, creating ‘trust’ through manipulation, but never self-trust as life here.

Why do we wonder that this existence is bipolar ‘by nature’?

The whole daily story really begs the question :

How can we accept and allow our Children to become assets of self-gratification for the ‘grown-ups’ of this world – an accessory of ‘added value’? How can we use the system to ‘justify’ who we are and become with our children? How can we not see that we are responsible? 

Seeing the ‘adults’ in my life, I do not see grown-ups, I do not see maturity, I do not see self-responsibility. I see immaturity, I see inconsistency, I see mental and emotional manipulation to suit one’s own agenda and schedule; and I see the current system supporting this atrocity in all ways. I see the shrugging of shoulders telling me “but what can I do really...it’s out of hand...” – and I can’t help but thinking “you can’t, you already have, it’s already copied & pasted & successfully cloned. You are looking at yourself”.

 

Just because we cannot be mature ‘grown-ups’, we demand from our children to be it, to understand, to suit our own ‘needs’, ‘wants’, ‘desires’, to submit and accept our ‘fears’ and ‘obsessions’. To be there for us unconditionally – because we are the parents, “we do everything for them” – but only the way WE think is best - ...for whom actually?

An Equal Money System based on the value of Life implies not only a total transformation of the accepted value-system and the current forces of motivation based on fear, survival, ‘love’ and ‘power’/wealth –

It also implies a total transformation of Living, of ‘who we are’ and how we co-exist with ourselves and each-other in all aspects of life. It is in fact about the human becoming/changing to be equal as life – and no longer slave to a ‘shiny system’ of fake value, within as without.

This is it.

For the Children to come we need a new world that is life-friendly; scratch that, we need a new world that is actually and in fact existing AS Life – in all ways, and all systems.

Instead of a system that feeds off of life for ‘profit’ and ‘image’/ego – We need a system that actually feeds life; All life equally.

Equality as Life implies that Life IS the value : That would be a world we may ALL equally call HOME.

Let’s Bring it on!

See also:

Family? Family teach Love as Deception

Revolution of Money is Revolution of Man - A Destenation for Mankind

Destonians : from Back-Chat to Living-Words

From Back-Chat to the Living-Word

Living-Words implies that our thoughts, actions and deeds are one, and that one stands as an integral living being-ness that resonates throughout the universe and creates existence.

Now – we can all see what kind of existence we have created here as mankind; it is anything but kind.

We have a system that feeds off of life with Money as god, instead of a system to actually support life – all life equally. We all exist in fear of each-other as slaves to this system we have created and given permission for to run our lives.

Within as without, we run on survival-mode: fight or flee, won or lose. And while for the ‘big bosses’ this may seem like a game, for the small hungry bodies in countries hidden from the mercy of ‘god’ it is a struggle for the next breath.

Inequality the mark of the beast of this existence: Mankind. Or should we say ‘Manevil'!

Consider: An actual win-win-scenario for all is possible! The answer is Equality = the practical application of the simple math that Life equals Life; and that the value of Life is Life.

For Equality of Life, all separation must stop. 

Just like all back-chat must stop, as back-chat is the evil that brews in the ‘secret chambers’ of the ill will of man – because what is no evil, need not be kept secret.

Imagine a world where thoughts are visible. Imagine a world where emotional reactions have each their own smell. (And what tells us it isn’t so, but the human ‘incapability’ to actually see itself and its own creation!)

Who would you be if everything was known? (And who says it isn’t!)

If you believe in god – How can you live with yourself?

If you believe in no god – What are you blaming for your existence?

Destonians realize that Equality as Life means equal power – self-empowerment. No gods, no masters, no slaves – Instead: self-responsibility, self-creation, self-power as Life.

Imagine a world where there is no separation in gods, masters and slaves! A world where all parts of life are equally valuable! 

What will it take to ‘get there’? 

What will it take for such ‘paradise’/’paradigm’ to be Our Here !

Realizing that we are the building-blocks of our world, and seeing the reality of this existence as we face ourselves day-to-day through all our interactions, reactions, disputes, fears and desires, news on TV and the natural calamities that every now and then come to burst our bubbles of separation : 

we have no choice but to stand-up and stop that which is creating this creation, the world as we know it – starting within ourselves.

Through self-purification we purify our existence. We are walking a process of self-honesty, walking a self-transformation from existing as back-chat in spitefulness to becoming the living-word : 

scripting and applying a new reality for all life, as what we would like for ourselves in self-dignity.

C’mon people, wake up! EARTH HOUR is DECEPTION

C’MON PEOPLE, WAKE UP! 1 Hour out of 8760 total hours in a year to FEEL BETTER and get the ILLUSION that we are ‘doing something good’ ?!?!?!?!

Here is how a ‘good thing’ can turn into a global scam: 

“Earth Hour started in 2007 in Sydney, Australia when 2.2 million individuals and more than 2,000 businesses turned their lights off for one hour to take a stand against climate change. Only a year later and Earth Hour had become a global sustainability movement with more than 50 million people across 35 countries/territories participating. Global landmarks such as the Sydney Harbour Bridge, CN Tower in Toronto, Golden Gate Bridge in San Francisco, and Rome’s Colosseum, all stood in darkness, as symbols of hope for a cause that grows more urgent by the hour.”

See the whole thing here: http://www.earthhour.org/

The Evolution of ‘Earth Hour’: “GO BEYOND THE HOUR”....

The purpose of SENSATIONALISM is to distract us from Seeing that no actual solutions are being considered.

Make a BIG FUSS out of 1 Hour in the total of 8760 hours of a year and give people the SENSATION the are supporting a 'change' or even 'changing the world'....C'mon!

Will You turn your power off? 

Will the world's scientific research centers switch off their devices? 

Will the giant power generators turn off their power? 

What with the nuclear reactors? 

Will the big wheel stop turning for an hour while you enjoy the Illusion of 'free choice' as the media sells it?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nuclear_power

Check out the Equal Money solution and participate in an actual change that will support ALL LIFE equally and for-real!

We should stop arguing for our limitations:

What if I take my problem to the United Nations? (PJ Harvey)

PJ Harvey- The Words That Maketh Murder

I've seen and done things I want to forget;
I've seen soldiers fall like lumps of meat,
Blown and shot out beyond belief.
Arms and legs were in the trees.

I've seen and done things I want to forget;
coming from an unearthly place,
Longing to see a woman's face,
Instead of the words that gather pace,
The words that maketh murder.

These, these, these are the words-
The words that maketh murder.
These, these, these are the words-
The words that maketh murder.
These, these, these are the words-
Murder...

These, these, these are the words-
The words that maketh murder.

I've seen and done things I want to forget;
I've seen a corporal whose nerves were shot
Climbing behind the fierce, gone sun,
I've seen flies swarming everyone,
Soldiers fell like lumps of meat.

These are the words, the words are these.
death lingering, stunk,
Flies swarming everyone,
Over the whole summit peak,
Flesh quivering in the heat.
This was something else again.
I fear it cannot be explained.
The words that make, the words that make
Murder.

What if I take my problem to the United Nations?

Celebrating Diversity is Celebrating Equality

Some considerations in the context of Carnival and diversity celebrations... It is fascinating that, behind the masks we mask ourselves with and often hide behind – ornaments of culture, ethnic inheritance, tradition, religion and other cults and belief-systems – we are all the same: skin and bones, a crown of thorns, breathe-in breathe-out, with or without...

Why define ourselves by our differences?! Is the ‘pride’ in diversity actually a manifestation of our ‘spite’ towards that which we have equally become within and as this world : Organic robots living a systematic existence in cycles of abuse, trapped in oblivion, enslaved to a system of no mercy and no consideration for life, a system in the image and likeness of its creator, you and me... And in an attempt to deny and forget the obvious atrocity we all equally exist in and have accepted and allowed to become of this world, we try and give meaning to our differences – a desperate attempt to give ourselves some ‘value’...

The value of life is life!

Fascinatingly enough, celebrations of diversity end-up celebrating our equality and demonstrating that under the garment that is our disguise we are all equal – we breathe the same air and need the same elements to live on this earth.
We all know the national or ethnic groupings and clubs at universities, colleges and generally the global villages worldwide like Berlin, London, New York. This is quite 'interesting' to observe if we take into consideration how this world as our current and accepted system imposes a 'minority fear' (not that it is a place to really feel at home anyhow...). People tend to get together under the auspices of their culture & customs to feel more 'at home', to feel more 'safe'... In an Equal Money system based in the value of Life, this phenomenon will slowly but surely dissipate, as we create a world where ALL LIFE may feel equally at home!

The conditioned elements of our different cults and traditions cannot save us from facing ourselves as participants of this co-existence called Earth. They are no justification and no excuse for abuse and separation.

Time to realize that THE VALUE OF LIFE IS LIFE and that this world system as it exists through everybody’s permission is a crime against life!
Time we do something about this!



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